Girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago and insisted being friends because she 'wasn't a relationship person' (excuses :P). Instead of crying about it and acting like a wuss I instead made it look like I was fine with everything. I've also made it clear my life is going great right now and am happy. Although I do plan to move on and meet new girls, I'd also like to see if I can get back with the ex girlfriend because I do actually like her alot and we get along well. Would casually letting her know that I am dating again be a good idea to help win her back? Or just staying friends and being confident and fun to be around? I'm not one of those guys who is begging to get back with her and I can't live without her I'd like to see what some good things are to do they may help out if there's still a chance. :P
2006-06-13 03:39:35 · 6 answers · asked by everlongdrummer87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it's hard to casually drop in "im dating and happy" in a conversation, unless she asks, then i say be honest. If you just bring it up, it sounds like you really dont care, and she may just go on with her life and not think about wanting to get back with you. But in the mean time, just go with the confident fun to be around guy, women love that, and if she really cares she realize she misses u, and want to get back together too.
2006-06-13 03:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-13 19:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the exact same situation with my ex...and I'm doing exactly what you're doing. So far, it's working...I mean, I actually am dating other people and I make little comments to let her know this..It bothers her and she's been doing little things to get my attention. I do plan on getting back with her soon, but I don't want to jump right back into it because I want her to see that I'm a challenge...When people see that you're doing fine without them and not just moping around, they always tend to want to come back...
2006-06-13 03:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by mesofemme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on the chick,i for one would be extremely jealous and pity myself,but then i would realize that you have moved on , and i would not interfere
2006-06-13 03:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by Coo Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah for now, stay friends intill she needs you then jumo right back in.
2006-06-13 03:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by Help me Pick my Brain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That will only push her away...trust me i know these things...it might make her fell sad becasue she isn't that gurl but you have to let her know how you feel!
2006-06-13 03:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by sexii4m3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋