Broke up with girlfriend a few weeks ago and insisted being friends. Instead of crying about it and acting like a wuss I instead made it look like I was fine with everything. I've also made it clear my life is going great right now and am happy. Although I do plan to move on and meet new girls, I'd also like to see if I can get back with the ex girlfriend because I do actually like her alot and we get along well. Would casually letting her know that I am dating again be a good idea to help win her back? Or just staying friends and being confident and fun to be around? I'm not one of those guys who is begging to get back with her and I can't live without her I'd like to see what some good things are to do they may help out if there's still a chance. :P
2006-06-13 03:24:11 · 11 answers · asked by everlongdrummer87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-13 03:25:10 · update #1
*EDIT* - she broke up with me
2006-06-13 03:25:38 · update #2
cheers for the response people, very helpful
2006-06-13 03:35:10 · update #3
Absolutely. When a woman sees that you can go on with your life and be happy without her, it makes her think about what she gave up. It shows her you are independent and a positive thinker, the two things that probably attracted her to you in the first place.
2006-06-13 03:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by mrkymrk64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing you can do is hide your feeling and pretend your fine without her. I know you don't want to look weak but if you don't let her know how you feel you might do more worse than good. You can still do this without being a "wuss". Let her know how you feel and that you still want to be with her, give her the opportunity to respond if she's not interested. Tell her you do plan on dating other women then. For some strange reason the saying is true "you don't know what you got, till it's gone" This might be true in your situation. Give her time to date and you do the same both of you might end up figuring out you were meant to be together.
2006-06-13 03:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-13 18:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her see how fun you are as a friend and great person to be around maybe she'll beg you back but dont act like a play boy thats just a turn off.
2006-06-13 03:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be friends, yall broke up for a reason. Just let things be for right now and maybe things will fall in place and yall will get back together. Don't rush it though.
2006-06-13 03:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by shizzy0117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let her think that you are over everything, because if she would even want to get back with you, and she saw that you already had a gf, then it wouldbe a turnoff, and she prolly wouldnt even try, so try to look like your ok, but dont get w/ anyone.
2006-06-13 03:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by Kjo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for starters you need to fix the reason she broke up with about
then sit her down and talk to her and see what is up in her life and see if you fit back into it
2006-06-13 03:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if shes not avvoying you first start hanging around her agian and being nice and start calling her then you will see what comes next and ask her do you want to hang out?
2006-06-13 03:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by christyboo!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just put your pride aside or swallow it as they say and ask her if she can be your again.if the answer is no be satisfied and move on.there many girls out there.by the way youve got nothing to loss.
2006-06-13 03:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by lashes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u no if she's the 1 tell her
2006-06-13 03:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋