I met a guy online, he gave me his number and i called him after a few days. We texted all day and ended up chatting online, til really late at night. He didnt contact me for a good few months and so i did.That day we texted again and decided to meet up! I reluctantly agreed but maintained we remain freinds, he agreed. we met up and got talking about some girl he was interested in, i told him he should let her know how he feels. But then he started to touch me and so we kissed! it felt awkward because i knew it was just wanted a fling 4 him however, i was looking for a partner to be there for me, as i would for him, and i told him that. this was the first kiss after my husband (who passed away 3 yrs ago). I didnt know how to take it! At the end of that uncomfortable day we parted as mates, without talking about what happened! i called him as a mate as i had an issue and asked for his help but he never replied back!I really liked him, but didnt realize until after, what shall i do?
2006-06-13 02:49:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it makes u happy than u call all the best
2006-06-13 02:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
dont take him serious cause you will just end up being hurt since he has not shown the committement to follow you up at that kiss, meaning he just wanted a quick and it seems he is still in love with the other gal. he wanted comfort at the time and he does not need it any more that is why he is quite. just look elsewhere. I am sorry about the loss of your husband and I pray that God gives you someone who will love that much again.
2006-06-13 03:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forget about this guy. When you finally met he was talking about another girl he was interested in!! That is a very clear sign that he is not interested in pursuing a relationship with you. I'm sorry. I wish you the best.
2006-06-13 02:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by woodybmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to contact him, spend an evening together. It it goes well (and if he turns up), you take it from there. I think you should try your best just for the feeling you have done as much as you could. The rest, you leave up to him...
2006-06-13 03:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by Hubbba_Bubbba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't try you never know, so please call him, tell him how you feel and ask him to be honest about the way he feels about you.
It will not go away until you find out his feelings for you. Good Luck and sorry about your husband.
2006-06-13 03:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by sylvie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him, meet up with him and tell him about how u feel, u might be the girl he was talking about, if he likes u too i think he will let u know.
2006-06-13 04:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he`s playing you. However, you can`t help the way you feel. Call him once more, if he doesn`t reply, as hard as it may sound, walk away.
2006-06-13 05:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh no just forget him.....he's just playing head games with you. If he really liked you he wouldnt be talkin about some girl and what not, he's a LOSER
Drop it like its hot
2006-06-13 02:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by summer_dante 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
toss him back in the water and start searching for a bigger fish :)
2006-06-13 03:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by basschickkc05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and tell him how you fill GOOD LUCK
2006-06-13 03:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by candiceashbornerdavisbensonhowes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋