I have just found out that my gf of several years is advertising herself on the swingers personals dating site as someone with no bf, single up for anything i quote ''im just looking for a friday **** buddy''' what should i do? friday is the only day she has to herself as i am at work.
2006-06-13 02:37:27 · 18 answers · asked by spens dad! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would take Friday off have a friend call and show up as her Friday friend bring the ad with and ask her what the heck she is doing.
2006-06-13 02:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok firstly...this is disgusting and you shouldnt put up with it. Look at the date it dates back from on the "advertisement" and that should give you an idea or how long you may have (possibly) been cheating on you?
It could be old though, although by the sounds of it, it isnt. You haveto question yourself why she would cheat on you? There isnt any logic in cheating fullstop!
Print off the webpage and keep it with you for when you confront her about it. Firstly though, check up on her on the friday and see what shes upto! theres nothing better than catching loverats in the act!
THEN if it is true, and she is cheating on you, take it calmly but LEAVE her as she doesnt derseve you, You deserve far better.
Only slappers would advertise thier body and souls ont he internet. thats just a disgrace.
Good luck!
x
2006-06-13 05:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush things and jump to conclusions that she wants someone else for love. Let me give an idea on how go about this issue if you want to get to the bottom of it. Sign up a new mail address and apply to her advert as someone who is interested in an affair with her and see what her response will be, if she just needs friends on the internet, then that is fine, but if she wants a serious relationship, then there you have a problem and you can confront her since you have the evidence at hand that she is truely wants to double cross you. Patient in handling this issue, mind you its just on the internet and nothing real usually comes out of it at times.
2006-06-13 02:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. At the end of the day, she will ask you why you were looking on the site.
Maybe your relationship has run it's course.
Maybe she doesn't feel the same any more, if so yu need to know so you can just move on.
Hope there's no kids involved, it is really hard then, but you'll get through
D*
2006-06-13 02:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be around, secretly, on a Friday...with a digital camera or video...get "the evidence" and then confront her - otherwise she'll deny it all and say a friend set her up blah blah.
You can't argue with real evidence.
Then you can decide what to do; if she wants to be with you then you could get her to provide other girls for you, or let you do all of her mates...whatever you can think of as recompense!
:-)
2006-06-13 02:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Nefeco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her you might be able to save things! Or she could have an excuse like this:
Me and my mate went on a dating website for a joke once to see who we could get! I told my boyfriend afterwards and at first he laughed till he saw the hotties who replied he made me promise never to do it again hehehe im so bad
2006-06-13 02:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by angel louie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See about answering her... ;) Or how about sending her details, and we'll see what we can do for her...
Alternatively, see if she is willing to get another girl or guy and wants a 3some...
Sounds like she is in the market for some extra fun, go with it... And become a swinging couple...
2006-06-13 02:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumb her and move on. I would also show her a copy of the add you saw. No you also have to ask yourself as to why you were on that site looking around as well.
2006-06-13 02:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by pjthedj247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i don't think she will admit to it if you ask her. i think she may be to ashamed. i would get a friend to phone the add. arrange for her to meet him in a hotel but you go with him. when she gos into the room. how can she explain that if you show her the add then.after that i think she will know shes dumped.good luck.she doesn't know when shes well off with a nice guy,
2006-06-13 03:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by sammylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a copy of the advertisment and show it to her and ask her what is it all about.
2006-06-13 02:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋