i never get to see my b/f. i luv him to death. i think that i wanna break up with him, but then when i hear his sweet little voice. i cant do it. should i just have sum1 else do it for me. there is this other guy. he asked me out. i havent anwsered him yet. but i wanna go out with him sooooo bad. then there are 2 other guys that asked me out and i didnt say anything to them. idk what to do. HELP!!!!!!!
2006-06-13 02:31:44 · 13 answers · asked by hey_toot_toot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Explain the reasons that you just gave us to him. Tell him that you really love him but you really want a bf that you will actually get to see. Tell him that you need to do more with him or else you are going to have to be done together. Make sure that this is really the way you feel because once you say this there really is no turning back. You can always tell him that you still want to stay friends but you just want to date some other guy. Good luck.
2006-06-13 07:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by someone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its never easy to break up with someone, especially if you love him. You have to think about long term, and if you keep putting it off it will only hurt more. Tell him yourself, there is nothing more hurtful then someone else is telling you that your significant other doesnt want to be with you. So if you truly love him tem tell him yourself. As for the other guys, men will come and go through out your life, no matter if you are in a relationship or if your single, so make sure this break up is what you truly want to do, rather than getting too caught up in other guys liking you. Its easy to want what you don't have.
2006-06-13 02:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to break up with him you need to do it yourself. Having someone else to do is a cop-out and not mature at all.
Be honest with him and yourself, it really shouldn't matter who else you have lined up on the side. If you want to break up with him cuz its not working out for you then fine, but don't do it cuz you can't see him and other ppl are interested. Do you not have a back bone?
Break up with him because your not happy, if you are happy then maybe you just have some commitment problems that you need to work out.
Good Luck!
2006-06-13 02:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by ronce_1118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him to death why would you get someone else to tell him you don't want to be with him anymore? That's middle school stuff. You should tell him how feel and that you want to see him more. If nothing changes, then you give the other guy a call.
2006-06-13 02:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by shizzy0117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as for your current, if you never get to see him then its time to end it anyway, be tough about it, but U have to do it, no one else. After that you csan go out with whoever you want, If you always worry about breaking his heart, nothing will ever get done.
2006-06-13 02:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take the coward's way out by getting someone else to break up with your boyfriend for you. How childish. Which reminds me, how old are you??
2006-06-13 02:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by dulcetpurr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your gonna wind up cheating on him then just "dump" him...Why can't you guys see each other?
But if your gonna break up with him you do it!
Don't be a coward, people need closure in their lives.
2006-06-13 02:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the person who likes u the most not with the one whom like most.
2006-06-13 02:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by Shy Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the one you like the most and no dont have a freind do it you do it
2006-06-13 02:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think which one do you love more and go out with that one.
2006-06-13 02:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋