I met a guy and started seeing each other for a couple of weeks. I live abroad and he is back in the UK in the forces. We said we would both stay friends and enjoy texting and emailing each other as he was going away for a while. When he first left we had regular contact, however i have emailed and texted him and had no reply for a couple of weeks. I am concerned that he is okay as he could be somewhere dangerous. I can't see that I have done anything wrong and don't understand why he hasn't been in touch. We got on very well and had a good laugh. There was really no harm in emailing each other. I dont know whether to leave it or maybe try again in a couple of months. The last email I had was very positive and said he would be in touch soon. I am confused. What should I do?
2006-06-13 02:21:22 · 12 answers · asked by mcminx368 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you emailed him to ask him what's going on? Text and email him both and ask. Tell him that if he's ok and simply doesnt want anything to do with you, to please tell you so you can stop wondering if he's ok. If he is ok, and just couldnt contact you for a while, ask him from now on, to tell you if he's going to be out of touch for a while and/or if he's mad or wants nothing to do with you to say so........the silence is confusing and scary. Explain that.I am sure he is just involved in something and cant get back to you. I'm sure it bothers him too...wondering what you must think! Good luck!
2006-06-13 02:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My friend was seeing a guy who is in the army. He treated her like S@#%T. He only ever wanted her when he felt like it and she was confused by it all. At the end of the day wait for him to contact you. Then if nothing has happened in the next 2-3 months just send him a quick simple email like 'Hi how youdoing hope your well!' and leave it at that until he makes the next move.
2006-06-13 02:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleeyes82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd try to email him again stating your concerns. I do have to say that long distance relationships are very hard on both parties. My husband is in Iraq and although we talk everyday, it is difficult. If you really feel that this guy could be the one for you, don't give up, but accept the reality of the situation...it might not work!
2006-06-13 02:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by yogazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its a friendship i dont think youre doing any harm.maybe hes gone away somewhere something to do with his job.leave it a bit and see if he gets in contact with you
2006-06-13 07:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by Paul S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email him and tell him ur worried about him, ask him to email u back if he's alright. but yeh i imagine hes just busy :) the army does that to people unfortunately :( sorry if that sounded sarky it wasn't suppose to!
2006-06-13 06:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by Limeatron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just occupied for awhile but don't hope sometimes they just say well keep in touch.just keep your fingers cross that he will communicate with you...when he got free time..just pray nothing happened to him and that he is just busy...
2006-06-13 02:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men in the forces are very busy chaps, and he may not have had the time to get back to you yet...don't worry your little head about it, I'm sure he will be back in contact soon...
2006-06-13 02:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by anna21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it for a while... Get on with your life and see what happens...
If he has been out of contact for some reason, then he should be in contact soon...
I really wouldn't worry about it... Just get on with your life...
2006-06-13 02:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably just busy he will get in touch when he has time if you do not hear from him in a few months try e-mailing again.
2006-06-13 02:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an out of sight out of mind situation, so please get over him and move on, you dont even know him better since you were only together for weeks. forget about him.
2006-06-13 02:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋