I'm in love with my older brother's frind, and we've been talking for lyk 6 months now. But every time we chyll he expects us to "do sumthin" and then wen we went out ((for lyk 3 months)) he would never tell any one. But he said he couldn't becuz if my brother found out it would ruin their friendship. Does he really mean it or am i just his bootycall?!?! Please help me befor this goes any further!!
2006-06-13 01:38:19 · 18 answers · asked by keonzbabygurl224 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I say catch him in a lie. Honestly, I do think thats what u r to him. I mean don't u think that he could've talked to your brother to see if it was cool with him? Come on now, common sense. He saying that because maybe ur brother knows how he really is and if he found out about you two, he would be mad and break you two up. Think girl, think real hard...
2006-06-13 01:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by omarigirl91 2 · 20⤊ 4⤋
Sometimes the truth hurts, but you're just a booty call! I've been there and done that. Anytime you hang out with someone and all they want to do is have sex or do something sexual then that's all it is. It's just sex!! Besides, if he really likes you he would tell your brother. If you want more out of this, then the best thing to do is let it go and find someone who appreciates you for you!!
2006-06-13 02:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by kiwi_kiss021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not willing to publicly acknowledge that the two of you are an item together then he's either afraid people knowing this would limit his chances of being with other girls also or he's ashamed for whatever reasons for people to know you're together. In either case, if this is true, then he's using you and you need to make it clear to him that you want to be publicly acknowledged as a couple or you want to call it quits.
2006-06-13 01:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh..bootycall.
2006-06-13 01:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Toolooroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question, do you personally think your brother will mind if you two came open with your relationship? If your answer is no he wouldnt mind then tell him he's got a choice,either to accpet you in front of peope, or forget this whole thing. you deserve more then that!
2006-06-13 01:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just using you because if he really like you he would let everyone know and not expect you to have sex everytime you chill. You should talk it ova with him becuz he might not know how you feel.
2006-06-13 01:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by priceless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should not sleep with someone if they are not going to tell people that you are a couple and if you think you are a booty call then you probably are one.
2006-06-13 01:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
booty call! I don't understand how his friendship with your brother will be ruined if he finds out, but if his friendship is more important then you, it's time to move on!
2006-06-13 01:42:37 · answer #8 · answered by ♥*´`*ღPink♥*´`*•.¸¸ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just want nobody to know that you guys are going out so he can get some from you! I think you might be going that way with your bro's friend!
2006-06-13 01:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by Courtney Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your brother cared about you and his friend he would want you two to be happy together. don't you? sorry to say it but it sounds like you are getting used. get out fast.
2006-06-13 01:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Tanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sound to me like you might be. But its up to you to decide how you feel. trust you gut and follow your instincts, they usually dont lie. try talking to him and tell him how you feel. see how he feels and if he loves you back then he should have no prob tellin your brother.
2006-06-13 01:43:39 · answer #11 · answered by siajlence 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋