Guys/Girls: Can you please give your opinions on the following myths?

Question

I know there are many teens reading these questions so please help clear up the truth behind these myths.

1)Guys only like to marry virgins.
2)Girls judge guys only by the size of their penis.
3)Older men and women don’t know how younger guys and girls think about stuff.
4)Guys are only after sex all their lives and it’s all they talk about with each other.
5)Girls don’t have to know anything about sex, it’s the guys job to know everything.
6)Guys/girls will always cheat because they are never faithful.
Thank you for your answers.

Answer 1

1) Guys only marry virgins? Not true. Some cultures may still prize it and encourage their males to seek virgins for marriage, but not every culture is so narrow minded. Historically, marrying virgins was the only known way to ensure a bloodline, and since hereditary laws, not to mention religious laws, supported the blood heir, it was imperative to do so. However, now days we can do that through DNA tests, and our laws are not so archaic anymore. Additionally, since so many marriages end in divorce - those women, being virgins no longer, are still getting married again. So, to answer your question - NO guys do not just marry virgins.
2. Girls judge guys on any number of things, not solely on the size of thier manhood. Are they funny, considerate, generous, hardworking, etc.? After that, if the relationship becomes intimate, then we consider if the guy was actively considerate of our turn ons, not just his own. How he uses his manhood is more important than it's size. So, no, girls do not just judge guys on the size of thier penis.
3. Older people certainly do know how younger kids think. We were not always old. If the kid is really talking to us and vice-versa - not just blowing each other off - we can even understand what it would be like to be young at this day and age.
4. This question is a bit extreme. I believe that for some guys, sex is a daily thought process. However, as guys grow older they discover that they enjoy so much more in life and therefore think of sex less. If a guy has no hobbies, no friends or family, work or other activites to engage thier mind, then they might spend more time on sex.
5. This question is really a throw back to question #1. Humans learn sexual behaviors by habit, practice and environment (what we are exposed to). Girls are not immune to that - we know what we like and don't like. It is still true today that guys are more likely to be sexually active than girls, and as such gain more experience. However, the girls they are having sex with are gaining it too.
6. That too is an extreme statement and completely untrue. It may happen more often than not, unfaithfulness, but it is not the standard that we should judge one another by. Expect better, be better and you will get better in return.

Answer 2

1) No men do not only like to marry virgins. I do not really think they care either way when it comes to marriage. But their are a lot of men that do only have interest in being "the first" even if they do not want a serious relationship & will say anything to be “the first” (I know this from experience!). I think that girls should wait until they are older (at least seventeen and then it depends on whether or not they are mature enough to handle any consequences that may come from it such as unwanted pregnancy, STDs, etc...).
Ideally it is a good idea to wait until marriage, but in reality there are pros & cons to waiting. I waited until I married [at 22] & it was a mistake for me. He was very inconsiderate even though he knew it was my first time just because he knew he was going to get sex. If girls are not going to wait until marriage they need to at least make sure that it is with someone that really does care for them. you . If the person truly cares for them they should respect whether she wants to wait. I am not advocating premarital sex, but knowing what I know now, I probably would not have waited [until I was married].

2) I used to not agree that a man should be judged by his size, but I have changed my mind about this one. There are too many men that care about a woman's bust size so why should they not be judged by what they have? What he has serves more of a purpose in intercourse than whether or not a woman has big breasts! No matter what anyone says it does make a difference in sex. Even if he is good at something else, penetration is what counts. This probably offends a lot of men, sorry, it is true.

3) We do know how younger people feel--we were young once too. And when it comes to emotions & the libido, they are always going to be t is still a difficult thing to control.

4) Sorry, I have yet for someone to prove me wrong on this one!

5) What's to know? It should come natural. The only thing both of them really need to know about is protection. As far as the act itself you should just do what feels good. I do not really see how anyone can be that ignorant about sex since it is practically shown on television & the movies, in books, etc...It is important to talk about each other's needs but the WORST thing a lover can do is say "my ex-boyfriend/my ex-girlfriend would do it". When one does that, it is like saying that the person you are with is not as good as your "ex"---remember, if the ex was so great, they would not be an "ex".

6) I do not want to say always, but a great deal of the time. Sometimes it is because they are bored or they cannot get what they need from their partners (whether it be emotionally or sexually), sometimes because they just grow apart. And then some people are just "users".

Answer 3

I can't tell you about everything:
"1)Guys only like to marry virgins." not true. There might be guys who will only marry virgins, but not everyone.
"4)Guys are only after sex all their lives and it’s all they talk about with each other." not true. There might be guys who talk about it but I doubt there are any guys who ONLY talk about that.
"6)Guys/girls will always cheat because they are never faithful.
Thank you for your answers." not true. There are some guys/girls who aren't faithful, but most guys/girls are.