How you take sex in your religion when the boy and a girl are not married? Is this allowed? Do you take it as a sin? Secondly after marriage is there any restriction in sexual relationship with your wife like oral sex or anal sex? or does it has any impact on the status of your marriage spiritually?
2006-06-12 22:43:32 · 11 answers · asked by Sweapy Romeo 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
For Roman Catholics sex before wedding is a sin. But Many people don`t follow this rule, cause it`s old fashioned.
2006-06-12 22:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by Joanna L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My religion is Hinduism.
How you take sex in your religion when the boy and a girl are not married?
In Hinduism it is not favored. Marriage, of some form, or some sort of 'contract' between the two acknowledging fidelity and companionship are considered important. Not because sexual activity itself is sinful, but that it is important to control one's sexual energy and enjoy it responsibly. It is generally agreed that sex within a committed union/marriage is the best way to control one's sexual energy and still have sexual enjoyment and fulfillment without damaging one's spirituality.
Is this allowed?
Hinduism isn't so strict that it would condemn someone for having sex outside of marriage. It explains the benefits of controlling one's sexual energy and acting responsibly so as not to do damage to one's spirituality. It recommends that this be done in marriage, but does not condemn those who may have already engaged in sexual activity responsibly. The goal is never to condemn, but to make suggestions to enhance one's spiritual life.
Do you take it as a sin?
No. Sin is merely bad karma. Sex is sinful whenever it is practiced irresponsibly or does harm to others (not consensual) because it produces bad karma.
Secondly after marriage is there any restriction in sexual relationship with your wife like oral sex or anal sex?
No. In fact, Hindu sacred texts like the Kama Sutra and other sutras mention sexual acts of many different kinds. Sex is a form of pleasure and enjoyment that people can enjoy responsibly. Pleasure/Enjoyment (Kama) is one of the reasons for life along with Dharma and Moksha, etc.
Does it has any impact on the status of your marriage spiritually?
No, what two people do sexually between each other is between the two of them. Sexual acts themselves do not harm one's spirituality. Only if one acts irresponsibly and does harm to others is the harm done to one's spirituality.
2006-06-12 23:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by gabriel_zachary 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex in Islam without marriage is not allowed and it takes this as a sin. In marriage and sexual relationship respect is the most important.
2006-06-12 22:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by seferjan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my personal belief, a piece of paper doesn't determine if you should have sex or not. To think one must be married in order to have sex is, well, I think rather silly. Would you buy a car without driving it first? Or clothes without trying them on?
I've been married for over 17 years now and nothing is restricted in our relationship. We don't hold ourselves to any type of religious ideology of what marriage should be. I didn't marry a religion.
2006-06-13 05:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kithy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All God religion's messages; Judiasm,Christianity, and Islam do not allow sex out side merrage and consider it as a sin. For wife if we understand that one of the main wesdom and purpose of merrage is to keep human kind; then I do not think anal sex will seve this purpose, beside anal created for ---- not for sex
2006-06-12 22:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by zainbi6boy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
theres nothing wrong with premarital sex as long as you dont do it at your moms house.the only reason that got started is because if the man loves you enough he will wait.,and in the olden days1800s the man would propose right away so the woman would be out of the family home,and not another mouth to feed,and that was usually at a very young age 13,14 tears old.
2006-06-12 22:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by kimmy_likes_it2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex outside of hetero marriage is a sin.
I Corinthians 13;8a, Love never fails!!!
2006-06-12 22:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is a gift from the Goddess. It is only sinful when done irresponsibly.
2006-06-12 22:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the boy and girl sex before their marrige is not sin because they must getting marrige and take in to account in their responsibility and aii of them. the sex will be became true.
2006-06-12 22:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by jacklin tkodii 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is a sin. In moslem, anal sex, sex during your period, sex before married are strictly forbidden.
2006-06-12 22:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by nike 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋