When I proposed she had blonde hair.
Now I find out she really isn't a blonde and just dies her hair.
And I told her i liked red lipstick but she stopped wearing it.
2006-06-12 22:27:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES im just kidding.
I just got so frustrated with another girl asking if she should break up with her long time bf because he text messages her instead of calling more. Jesus!
2006-06-12 22:36:18 · update #1
so.... whats the big deal? did you know that she's supposed to be your fiance because of love, not blonde/brunette/black or lipstick? if you did, you wouldn't ask such a kiddish question. or maybe you're just joking, right??
2006-06-12 22:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 16⤊ 4⤋
No, but she should dump you. Your asking this shows you are to immature to marry.
I strongly suggest pre-marital counseling to uncover any other secrets the two of you will have a hard time coming to terms with now while you still can. Because marriage is forever! But even if you dont believe that marrige is forever remember this, a court ordered payment can sure make it feel like forever.
PS. If she said yes to a shallow guy like you her self image is probably all screwed up. The die and etc. supports this. This should be a major "EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE" alert to you, and she probably is not ready to marry as well.
2006-06-13 05:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by vote4matth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the only thing about her that you wanted to marry was looks and they are changing then you probally shouldn't be getting married to her in the first place. However it sounds like she testing you just for this purpose as well. Not wearing the makeup you like is letting you know she is her own woman and she will decide what to wear and not wear. So if your looking for a mate that will do what you say your barking up the wrong tree.
2006-06-13 05:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you propose to her just because she had blonde hair and red lipstick? If so, then you should not be getting married anyway. For that matter, for asking this question you should not be getting married.
2006-06-13 05:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by daddyspanksalot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well if that's the only thing you care about then maybe you should dump her. She deserves someone that wants to be with her for more then just the color of her hair and what kind of lipstick she wears. People's looks change over the years. You have to be in love with someone for their personality and not their looks.
2006-06-13 05:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by cornbreadman2424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with dying her hair blond, if she did it on purpose to point u to the wrong direction, than u should think twice before getting marry. with the lipstick, u should ask y she did that. if she stop wearing because u like it, than u definitely have to ask her does she really loves u
2006-06-13 05:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by hihi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is the problem...most women don't tell everyone that they dye there hair ...It's no big deal !! get over it.....Maybe the red lipstick doesn't look good on her ..She is the one that is wearing it leave her alone,,,Sounds to me like you are just looking for trouble....I don't think you deserve her
2006-06-13 05:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it relly matter if she dyes her hair or doesnt wear red lipstick? if you want to spend the rest of your life with her then you should be happy however she looks even if shes wearin tracksuit pants with her roots 4 inches long! the point is you should love her for who she is not what she looks like!
2006-06-13 05:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by caz cooper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is this, is it the hair you proposed to or the person with the hair.
Forgive her except of course you dont have any good reason to be with her asides from her hair.
2006-06-13 05:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by cyberpaul007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.... do you love her hair and her lipstick or her? Ask yourself that. You'll know what to do next.
By the way, that's a bit shallow, don't you think?
2006-06-13 05:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by Dark Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only reasons for dumping someone is, if you are not happy, if he/she cheated on you, they lie, or if they hurt you in anyway eg: hitting you, or putting you down all the time.
So if you think she has done one or more of these things I would let her go but that's just me.
2006-06-13 05:35:08 · answer #11 · answered by Tanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋