i have 1 yr old son but i m not married i do this for my family bcoz we dont have brother but when i was pregnent my boy friend asked me for marrige but my sister did not help me for that but than also i bring my son in this world now my mom knows he is my son but now also i and my boy frien bear all expenses of my son my parents gave him their name but we dont give them all the responsibilities now my family members are happy but i m afraid that will my son understand my problems when he will grow up bcoz now our relation is brother and sister when he will know the truth what will he do my sister tell me that she will not tell him the truth but now also they are not thinking for our marrige and my elder sister is also not doing marrige and i m waiting for her but my sister always try to realize me that he is not my son now i m alone what will i do she is not settling her life and always tells me that dont do so fast you have enough time for marrige they dont understand my feelings.
2006-06-12 22:01:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he is your son and you can't change the truth
accept it and don't make your life and your son's life related to your sister and your family
marriage can solve your problem easily...
if you continue your life this way you will suffer when your son grow up and know you as his sister..the most important thing for you and your son is being lucky and live happily in future...
make your future and your son's future now
if your son know you are his real mother in future an emotional shock is the result of what you and your family has done to him
if he not know this,,,this life will suffer you and it will be an emotional shock for you
just choose the right way
you are a mother and you cant change your feelings,,,you cant know your child as your brother
this will be very hard for you
do the right job
2006-06-12 22:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by shahriar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't totally understand your whole situation, but if you want your son to be your son, and not be raised as your sibling, this should happen. if you are facing problems from your family regarding this, seek help outside your home and not on the internet. maybe a family doctor or a health clinic can point you in the right direction?
good luck.
2006-06-12 22:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by hannah d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot hide the truth from your child. truth always prevails. You have to tell your son about this and go ahead and get married to someone who can except you as you r with your son. Change your son's school and the surname to your husband's. He will come to know about this one day and then he will never forgive you. Better let him know this from you then other.
2006-06-12 22:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the past and screw the future. Enjoy the present moment. It is the only reality. base all your decisions on your present happiness and not on your future fears and uncertainties.
2006-06-12 23:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by HarshaW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what sort of family are you?
you already 've committed an act for which thers's everything to be ashamed of... why should you worry your future...
your shamelessness would increase manifold by then.......
just feel sorry for such ppl
2006-06-12 22:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by mobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really get whAT YOU ARE typing and your kinda tellin yo hole life story but whatever happens just let happen things will work out eventually
2006-06-12 22:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused what does your bother and sister have to do with your baby?
2006-06-12 22:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by USuck79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand for your right although it seem not right in your society.
2006-06-12 22:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that one sentence?
2006-06-12 22:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to much reading
2006-06-12 22:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by billey32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋