I have a girlfriend that likes this younger guy. He is only 22. and she is 44 with a 18 year old son. She has never been married. What do you think about her being older? Can she have a life with him or will it affect them in years to come because of her age? I would ask Demi Moore but I can't get a hold of her!
2006-06-12 21:26:19 · 22 answers · asked by Humming Bird 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! Especially not a mormon missionary.
You don't even know that he is interested in you...
I love how you have changed your story to a "friend" or you have a cousin who is going to be a missionary.
Drop your infatuation, its starting to sound a little crazy.
2006-06-13 02:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by Topher 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is too much of a generation gap for this one to work. While your friend may be getting some great sex at this time she will eventually show her age. 44 years old will or IS showing signs of wrinkles, sagging and what not?
While Demi Moore may be able to pull this off with dumb *** Ashton Cushier she can afford the boob jobs and little tucks it may take to appear younger.
Your friend has nothing more than a FFFFFF buddy right now. A 5 or 10 year gap in age is hard enough, But 22 years between them is nothing more than who is taking care of who.
Appropriate? Sex with a consenting adult is always appropriate. A relationship with someone half your age is just a heart break waiting to happen.
2006-06-13 04:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anna M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on the two people involved. It is a big age difference but to some it won't make a difference. I would just say that the guy should be careful. He may take the relationship more seriously than the older woman who might just be looking for a bit of a fling or some fun!
2006-06-13 04:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should follow her heart. If they wanna be together, they should go for it. The age gap will only get to them if they allow it. They need to just tune out the opinions of other people, and just live their lives for themselves. The success of their relationship depends on them, not their ages. Goodluck to her!! It's about time more older women dated younger guys, rather than just having a heap of old men running around with young trophy girlfriends.
2006-06-13 04:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, any 22 year old guy would date demi moore. but, your friend is not demi moore. he's just going to use up the "milf" and then dump her when he's done. i think every guy around his age experiments with the older lady. tell your friend not to get too attached.
2006-06-13 04:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think their marrage would fall apart after awhile(if they got married) he would wanna go out and do things like skiing or traveling and she'd be too old but there's nothing wrong with a long-term relationship.
2006-06-13 04:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by Federico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as they are both happy leave them alone.young guys dig older ladies cause they are more mature and know what they want.and being with a younger guy makes you feel so awesome and young guys have it going on i know from experience check out urbancougars.com
2006-06-13 08:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by miss v8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what wrong with stella getting her grove back. she might like a young buck every once in a while.they say age is just a number.
2006-06-13 04:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by dirtygirlmorgan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're both adults and so they know what they're doing. They can do whatever they like and you should go on with your life and find another gf. Take care : )
2006-06-13 04:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by Bigfoot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it, but I'd be weary if I were you. Are you a wealthy woman?
Guys are dogs, so be careful.
2006-06-13 04:32:48 · answer #10 · answered by jack f 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋