1. Can you really be in love with someone you have been talking to on the phone for over a year but have only seen her twice.
2. i'm pretty sure i am, but she don't feel the same way but i am moving to another state to be with her. she wants me to move there to be friends but she doesn't want a relationship. can i, and if so how do i get her to be with me?
2006-06-12 21:24:42 · 7 answers · asked by jimhm3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could be in love with her, but moving to be with her when she doesn't want a relationship is a double risk: it's a big risk even when it's what you both want, but just saying, "okay... I'm coming... hope maybe you'll fall in love with me someday..." Well, in my opinion that's both risky and foolhardy. You can't force somebody to love you.
2006-06-12 21:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Muddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want to be with you why are you moving to be with her? Seems selfish for her to make you stop your life to move and basically lead you on especially when she knows how you feel. It is very possible for someone to be in love the way you have fallen, but I suggest you wait and see how things play out before you make such a huge move and get your heart broken.
2006-06-13 04:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her your true fellings.Make it special.Take her out.Nothing to fancy,but enough.Do it before it's too late.Trust me I know.If it doesn't work at least she will know,and that just means it's something you had to go through to grow.I feel in love with a girl I talked to on the phone for a year.Seen her one time and all ready loved her so go for it.I didn't tell her and it was too late.So what are you waiting for.GO GO GO
2006-06-13 04:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by Gangwar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,it can happen.However if she doesn't want a relationship you cant force her.friendship is another thing and marriage is another.be practical.Dont be an emotional fool.
2006-06-13 04:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by sweetu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay friends because thats all that u will be to her. dont spoil it now. sounds like she has let you know this already. Is moving closer to her a wise thing??
2006-06-13 04:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not going to answer your question. if you move, and if you continue talking to her, you'll be making a huge mistake. you're setting yourself up for dissapointment, and she's gonna end up hurting your feelings really badly. cut your losses buddy.
2006-06-13 04:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i TELL YOU PRAY FIRST ASK G0D AND THEN FOLLOW YOUR HEART
2006-06-13 04:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋