and drunks and freaks. where are all the normal people?
2006-06-12 20:56:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
at university, work. when i went to high school i didn't have this problem.
2006-06-12 21:03:27 · update #1
You have to learn to recognize them from a distance. That will give you enough time to make your escape.
I've already cornered you, however, so you were too late.
*This* time.
Keep working on it, though, ok?
2006-06-12 22:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by missinglincoln 6 · 13⤊ 6⤋
Remember that people of similar personalities are drawn to each other, so they will want to be contacting you. Do you drink, and are you a freak? - if not then, all you have to do is to tell them that you are not interested in their company. Simple. If you want to contact normal people, then first be approachable and open yourself to others. In terms of boring persons - probably you are a target as a somewhat boring person - again lets hope thats not the situation. Always broden your scope and seek good people to talk too - thats the only "cure".
2006-06-13 04:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Drewy-D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not so bad - how would you feel if everyone including boring people and freaks ignored you. Maybe you can progress to talking to animals and small children, then once you have your confidence try a few regular people- Ha Ha!
2006-06-13 05:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by stardust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define "normal" . All i can think of is you must be going to places where the people are boring , drunk and freaky. Mabye you just got a sad little life , have nothing going for you. Mabye its you that's the social leper !
2006-06-13 04:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by Taffy Comp Geek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is the places and crowds that you hang out with--that sounds like the problem. So stay out of bars and clubs and you may find some other type of people out there. I am not a drunk.
2006-06-13 04:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are out there but hard to find sometimes. You need to looking the areas where they would be attracted too, but do remember that you can learn something even from a fool! Good hunting!
2006-06-13 04:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by Tom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi they see in you someone who could understand them and wont judge them , it happens to people who can look deeper into people , wont judge by race or status
Sometimes those people are attracted to one, who just looks kind
But bye the way ,they are not many normal people around anyway ! Just don't look into their eyes !!! and try ignoring them
good luck ( and just take it easy !! )
2006-06-13 06:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by belladonna_in_town 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you find people boring? Either you are not listening and paying attention to/interested in them, or you are too busy with yourself and your own story. Are you so interested in being with cool people that you miss out on them?
2006-06-13 07:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're older now than when you went to college...
All types of people are drawn to a kind person who listens.
Be happy about it, it's an indication of your emotional maturity.
2006-06-13 05:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Emma Woodhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to ask myself this question so I decided to train to become a psychologist. i felt it was the worlds way of saying "You should put your understanding of the human mind to good use." But maybe you're just unlucky.
2006-06-13 04:00:35 · answer #10 · answered by skybound767 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you've got a nice, inviting face? Just try not to make eye contact!
2006-06-13 04:13:21 · answer #11 · answered by Roxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋