my boyfriends ex wants him back, and she is crazy. i dont want her to say n do whatever she wants to get him back im ready to put up a fight but im scared of her. what do i do
2006-06-12 20:51:35 · 12 answers · asked by honey b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just remember he is YOUR boyfriend now, that gives you the upper hand. He wants to be with you, and he is with you not her...hence the "ex". If by chance she does succeed at getting him back, remember you are better off without him then.
She wants you to react to her behaviour, don't, hold your head up high and walk with pride, let your boyfriend know how you feel and how she makes you uncomfortable....let him deal with his ex...you don't have to. Most of all remember you got the man..she doesn't...
2006-06-12 20:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make sure that you and your boy friend have a good relationship and that you are making hi9m happy,let him know how you feel and then approach her and let her know that you know she is trying to sabotage your relationship and it aint gonna work then walk the other way,see how your boy friend reacts when you tell him that he has to have no contact with her at all,if you can see signs that he wants his ex back then get rid of him but if he doesnt then you stick by him and dont let her get into your head and try ruin your relationship everyone has one of these exs and if your persistent in not letting her contact you guys in any way she can then you two will win
2006-06-13 03:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend is a good boyfriend, HE will be the one to tell this old news chick to hit the road. If he doesn't have the guts to kick her out of his life for you, he is worthless, DROP HIM. You shouldn't have to do his dirty work, tell him her conniving ways are bothering you, ask him if he could tell her to leave him alone. If he gives you a bunch of excuses and stuff, he obviously wants her around. Good Luck.
2006-06-13 03:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by hh4pres 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long were they together? how long are you 2 together? what does your BF think or how does he react knowing she wants him back?
see, if you think about it you will already (in your heart) know how this will turn out. depending on how long they were together and how they broke up, there could still be something there. on the other hand, it's YOU he is with now. if he really wanted to be with her, don't you think he would?
you have to have faith in him and yourself.
2006-06-13 04:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her fight for him and let me give you a phase when it comes to guys espically if he has other girls after him...
If you can get him then you can have him..
As for the girl just deny and deny...
2006-06-13 04:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by tiny small 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, he has to decide
just keep shooting down anything she says
like if they were meant to be together how come they weren't happy and had to break up?
2006-06-13 03:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY OUT OF IT
It's something your friend has to deal with not you.
2006-06-13 03:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i know what your going through...if he loves you he will stick around...i know that may not help but it is the truth
2006-06-13 03:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by blueplanetsol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm
2006-06-13 03:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him to call the cops on her.
2006-06-13 03:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋