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2006-06-12 20:01:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be a good boyfriend and let it go, girls have lots of reasons for not wanting sex, if u make them they will hate u for it deep down
2006-06-12 20:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexually, women are like irons. They heat up slowly. Keep that in mind and don't rush things, and you'll have your maximum shot at having sex with any girl you want even on the first date. Get her alone. It could take a girl hours to feel comfortable before having sex. Watch a movie with her at your house and hold her hand and. Be patient.
2006-06-13 03:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by b-buddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that all depends... do you want to have sex way too often? does she always turn you down?
first I'd look into what it is in your relationship that's not going too well... maybe it's time to break up?
someone a few answers before said that girls have lots of different reasons to not be in the mood... boy, are they right.
just keep in mind that women are VERY different when it comes to arousal. Visual stimulation usually does it for you guys, whereas for us is conversation, candles, all that. I know it sounds too girlie-talk... but that's just the way it is... our biology works differently. Drive and arousal happen simultaneously for you guys, but they are separate events in our case, i.e. arousal might be there but it doesn't mean drive will follow.
So: conversation, scented candles and lots, lots, lots of foreplay... (remember, over 50% of us don't orgasm with intercourse!)
2006-06-13 03:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by Hudson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman who is not in the mood when you are is missing something. Maybe the actions leading up to your situation were more about you and weren't focused on her. A woman needs to feel like you want her for her not for you. It's complementing her, Kissing her, letting her know that you appreciate and respect her. I guarantee if you put her on a pedestal she will react to you and it will be fantastic.
2006-06-13 03:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by netdoc65737 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use your hand...what else are you supposed to do...you dont wanna force her your right..that would make her resent you if not leave you..it could also be rape even if she is your gf....and if your a good guy you wont cheat....so i guess your hand is the only real answer...and maybe a good porn movie will help out too
2006-06-13 03:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jesika G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could atlest give her some beer and make her drunk.... but at no point she must know that you are using her for sex or you know you are single again......
or you could bring porn books....
and read it loud to her and this might seduce her.. to have sex..
or you might play a game of cards and who ever wins have to remove clothes from there selfs... like the gloves, shoes, ... and so on to bra, and all the suff that might seduce her too...
so have fun and safe sex too.....
2006-06-13 03:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by Rip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things need to end if the chemistry is not there, make sure the relationship is not only based on sex, if it isnt then youll can build a relationship or a stronger one, if it is things need to end because chemistry cannot rebuild, if it isnt there, it isnt gonna just arrive
2006-06-13 03:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all know why chris doesn't have a girlfriend.... and Sweetbulbs hit the nail on the head, works like a charm!!
2006-06-13 03:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Just Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slip it in her @sshole after she's asleep that will teach the ****** to tell you no if this doesn't work go do her best friend and video tape it and send it to her at her job.
2006-06-13 03:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by miss wright 05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a nother just for those moments,woman think they are doing us a favour by having sex,
2006-06-25 15:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by ragsdee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋