if u found out ur boy friend was working for a dating service..u know the ones that ran scams and hire people to be the "dates" and all they do is just go out with these girls..dont sleep with them, dont take numbers/emails..basically there is nothing that would come out of this rlationship?
2006-06-12 19:33:40 · 14 answers · asked by ~Eliz~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you got a winner,
2006-06-12 19:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by hectortuba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it really depends on the level of trust in your relationship. If he sees it only as a job and a way for making money, then it is what it is. But if this is something that has you staying up late at night worrying about whether he will be faithful to you, then I think you two need to talk it out and go from there.
2006-06-13 02:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by Bay Area Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you find out? If your bf was open about it with you, and sees it as just another job (like modelling or acting) then be proud of the fact that you've got someone who's obviously hot and can make a living off of it!
Now if he WAS trying to hide it from you, then you have a larger issue than what he's doing at night....and I would worry about what else he's keeping from you.
2006-06-13 02:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by shukuken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be totally pissed off. Thats something you would want to know about him in the beginning of the relationship.If he's been hiding it from you , its for a good reason. He doesnt want you to know what hes doing cause it probably involves things that would interfere with your relationship.I would dump him. Unless you are cool with sharing your man with other people.....Part of going out on a date could possibly include sleeping with a girl if its what she wants, right?
2006-06-13 02:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find the reason he is working this 2nd (?) job... Is he saving money for school or does he just like the thrill of the scam... If he's there for just the con--cut your ties and be glad you found out before he had his paws on your bank account and assets!!
2006-06-13 02:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by cutienoz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get rid of him right away. The other option is to ask him to quite so he can be with you and you be the only girl, and find a different job that he could be doing. Change is good.
2006-06-13 02:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by jacoboctober11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the fancy places he will take you to because you understand, "it's just a job"
2006-06-13 02:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by 007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEIR IS NO WAY HE IS STAYING FAITHFUL IN THAT BUSSINESS,THE MONEY IS TO GOOD,AND YOU THEM HOES WILL PAY JUST LIKE THE MEN FOR A PEICE OF!!!!!!! HE'S JUST TRYIN TO SUGAR COAT IT.IT IS WHAT IT IS. AND ONCE A LIAR ,& A CHEATER ,THEY ALWAYS ARE .
2006-06-13 02:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's kinda risky to be around girls all the time but i guess you just gotta trust your bf.
2006-06-13 02:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by swyt_suphladah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him
2006-06-13 02:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by hpygrl01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋