I am 15 years old and highschool. I have a 11 crufew on the weekend and I got home late again. Mom mom said I could choose my punishment. No phone for a month. No TV for three weeks. No going out for 2 weeks or a spanking. I used to get spanked but not for two years. (over her knee on the pjs or panties with a hairbrush) and it was not that bad. But she said if Ichoose the spanking I will not be able to sit down after. I am still thinking that might be over faster. What do you guys think?
2006-06-12 18:59:50 · 25 answers · asked by sassyjane7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should have your boyfriend (or a male friend) go and take the spanking/paddling for you. Girls/women usually shouldn't get spanked, but your boyfriend would love to take this for you, and it will help pave the way for the future when you regularly paddle him and keep him in line.
Yep, get your boyfriend in to take the spanking, and spank him hard--on a bare bum!
2006-06-16 12:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by wondering 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
You shouldn't have a choice in your punishment, ever, so consider yourself lucky if you do. I think you should be spanked and then grounded; meaning no going out for 2 weeks or more. The combined effects will be a true punishment, one that will teach you a good lesson. You've earned it. Bend over and accept the consequences of your actions.
Btw, spanking is NOT abuse. A spanking punishment is clearly felt, lessons thoroughly learned, and it does No real damage. Abuse is a violent act, one punishable by law, and in no way should be associated with the discipline of a teenager (or a lover, if you like that and both parties agree)
2006-06-14 17:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the 2 weeks of no going out...and no...spanking your child is NOT against the law as long as you do not leave any scars or marks. I work in law enforcement and we recommend spanking...people don't spank their kids ENOUGH!
There is a huge difference between spanking and beating....
Either way..take the 2 weeks of time out...time alone as a teenager is good from time to time...
2006-06-13 02:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by BigBogeesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No phone for a month. that'll really annoy you into watfching the clock better and getting back home on time.
You can get over the other punishments without a backward glance, but you falsely think you need the phone. You don't. Punish yourself for needling your mom with that test of the 11pm curfew. You know you were testing her to see if she was a consistent little curfew cop!
2006-06-13 02:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take the spanking. You know you were wrong and that you deserve to be punished. You will remember the lesson the next time. Just keep a pillow handy to sit on afterwords.
2006-06-15 16:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how much you watch TV, I'd choose no TV for two weeks, but the spanking sounds rediculously easy, just humiliating... then again, it's not like she's gonna gather a bunch of your friends together to watch it.
2006-06-13 02:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take this punishment, No phone for a month. No TV for three weeks. No going out for 2 weeks. Your mother will beat the living daylights out of you this time. She is mad.
2006-06-13 02:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by buffoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything but spanking. Spanking with anything but the hand is abuse. Plain and simple.
No TV, no going out, no phone---those are not abuse, they are consequences for disobeying the rules. Spanking is not only abuse, but also bad for your self-esteem. The fact that you are having to ask what others think you should do, shows that you know deep down inside that spanking is wrong. If she spanks you at 15, when does it stop? When you are 30? I would, personally, take away what is causing you to stay out later than your curfew--no going out. That would teach you a better lesson than anything else.
2006-06-13 02:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'd go with the no tv. You can do a ton more things besides watch tv - read a book , talk on the phone, use the internet, etc. Next time make it a point to be home on time!
2006-06-13 02:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say you are 15 years old - but on another posting you say you have a 12 year old daughter ? So you gave birth at the age of 3 did you ?
Would you care to explain ?
2006-06-17 15:31:57 · answer #10 · answered by James H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
By taking the spanking you have made it clear that you understand that you where wrong, and that you take responsibuility for your actions. It is'nt fun to be spanked, but it show's that you are mature enaugh to understand that the spanking would be given for YOUR own sake, and not enything else. ...so YES, take the spanking, and you show that you are a young mature "lady", and not a spoiled girl.
2006-06-17 06:09:40 · answer #11 · answered by Paul A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋