He seems very nice, interesting, and he's definately intelligent (has his B.S. from a private college) I would love to get to know him better. BTW this BBQ is with some good friends of mine, and I think he'd have a pretty good time.
He also seems to like me. ;-D
2006-06-12 18:23:20 · 16 answers · asked by grldragon101 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BBQ is at my friends house, we'd have to drive in the same car.
2006-06-12 18:35:07 · update #1
No way sweetheart, this is not a bad idea at all. If you think he likes you, he would have a GREAT time, but, tell him to feel free to bring some of his friends, and be sure to show him attention. And you might even want to buy his favorite beer, and have it ready for him cold when he gets there. He will definitely open up and you will have great conversations at the grill party....
If things go well, the beer you bought may be the last thing you'd take the bill for for a long time to come... meaning, he'll begin picking up the bill when you go out on dates....
2006-06-12 18:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by gregthedesigner 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're concerned about it's being too fast to ask him out for a date, I think if you said something like "a few of my friends are getting together for a BBQ, would you like to stop by?" Then it's not technically a date with you, and he might feel more at ease.
Or, just go for it.
2006-06-13 01:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not too soon to invite him out, but a BBQ might be pushing it because he won't know anyone there but you and you just met him. He might be a lil uncomfortable I suggest you 2 find a mutual place first.
2006-06-13 01:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not too fast. It's just a BBQ right? It's not really a date. GO HAVE FUN!
2006-06-13 01:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by Shawne & Lexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way- gp ahead and ask him. We all know the rule is to wait 2 days- haven't you seen Swingers?
2006-06-13 01:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by SmoothCayenne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SURE ASK HIM..BUT MAKE IT A GROUP THING SO U DONT FEEL STUPID TELL HIM UR HAVING A GROUP FRIENDS OVER AND HES INVITED...........THEN GO FOR THE KILL LATER...IT BREAKS THE ICE AND YALL CAN TALK ABOUT SCHOOL AND WHAT HE WANTS TO DO WITH HIS FUTURE WITHOUT HIM THINKING THAT UR HITTIN ON HIM......
2006-06-13 01:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by META-4-RIC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ii dont see the harm in asking the worst that could happen is he says no. he might be busy but you never know unless you ask. i say GO FOR IT.
Good luck
2006-06-13 01:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no gurl just say it's a nice and friendly BBQ
2006-06-13 01:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw not 2 fast its kinda like a first date...how can a first date be 2 fast??
2006-06-13 01:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by RJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him, but have a friend with you at all times.
2006-06-13 01:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by Mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋