say your first time is a completely random hookup. can the second time be as special as the famous "first time" even though you've already done it once? can there still be that first time magic the second time bc you didnt have it the first time around?
2006-06-12 18:12:54 · 11 answers · asked by mervelash 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so say the first time wasnt exactly random but just meaningless and emotionless sex. the second time youre head over heals in love with the person and want to make it just as special as the first time. can it be?
2006-06-12 18:23:31 · update #1
There can be lots of memorable experiences... You might remember the first time you drove a car by yourself. That doesn't mean you can't have some really great car-driving experiences later in life...that are equally as memorable, if not more. So your first experience gets remembered because it is milepost...good or bad. Subsequent experiences get remembered because they are good or bad.
2006-06-12 18:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by c_schumacker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first time was kind of disappointing, because the sensation wasn't really that different from masturbation. The second time (about an hour later) was better. I was more relaxed. The third time, the next night, was like discovering that for all your high-falutin' logic and intelligence, you really are just an animal underneath. I consider that third time to be my true "first time" because my entire world changed after that.
2006-06-12 18:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Guelph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey... wait til you get to your 30's LOL you're gonna have a LOT of 'first-times"! And each one is gonna get better and better! /giggles
Truly, that first time with that hookup? Forget about it! INSIGNIFICANT! You're gonna remember another time that's going to be so super fantastic special that its going to totally blow anything else out of the water! I promise! So you're not even gonna count that as a 'first time'!!
DivaM
2006-06-13 17:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by DivaMinerva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, very much so. Just make sure you care for the person, loving them will make it even better. Just don't rush it, wate a few months, or even longer.
2006-06-12 18:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can definitely have better sex after you have have done it once. Sex is all dependent on the mood, feelings...
2006-06-12 18:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by m b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, the first time is always the best and worst.
2006-06-12 18:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and why would you be so whorish to have your first time be a random hook up...that's just plain nasty.
2006-06-12 18:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you were drunk and you cant remeber then yes it should be that magical thing your talking about. Otherwise...maybe but not likely
2006-06-12 18:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES BECAUSE ITS ALL DEPENDS ON YOUR MIND AND HOW RELAXED UR ARE..... ITS ALLL MENTALL
2006-06-12 18:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by META-4-RIC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it can...but only if its with someone you TRULY love, and thats how its meant.
2006-06-12 18:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋