How many chances should you give a guy. We have been off and on for a while. I cheated on him once and he has cheated twice. Its crazy but we still love each other. Should i just forget about him and find another guy or what do i do?
2006-06-12 18:03:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey, people don't change. once a cheater always a cheater, yourself included. apparently there were problems with the relationship or you two wouldn't have been messing around on each other. i know its probably not what you want to here, but you need to move on.
2006-06-12 18:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you said just girls but I think you guys should keep each other on your back pocket if you know what I mean. You don't belong with each other forever but it won't hurt to have a good time for a bit longer. Have fun you guys are obviously to young for a relationship. Remember people don't change. Plus you will always wonder if you stay with him weather he is cheating on you, if he has done it once well you know the rest.
2006-06-13 01:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by SHYBOY69ER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I've been through this same situation before. He cheated so I cheated.You probably thought that it would make you forget about him cheating NOPE. Leave him alone and find someone better. It;s going to hurt for a while but move on.
2006-06-13 01:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by sexy e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to give advice on this question because you both made the same mistake. I think that you should discuss your feelings with him. Do you feel that you can trust him. Trust is the foundation for a relationship and without trust a relationship can only fall apart. You say you still love eachother but how much? If you guys are love eachother enough that you and him are willing to commit to only eachother stay with him, because if not you may regret it. But, if you or your boyfriend is not willing to commit to only eachother maybe you should give the relationship a short break and try again later...I really hope this helps somewhat. :)
2006-06-13 01:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by Krista P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your bf must be very horny. You cheat each other. You will not be able to stop this. You will go on cheating for ever. So dont have a steady partner. Sleep around. That is the best solution
2006-06-13 01:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there is something about your relationship that isn't solid, otherwise all the lying and cheating would never have occured. Perhaps the attraction is still there, and may always will be, but I say move on and find another relationship that is way more solid from the get-go.
2006-06-13 01:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know i shouldnt answer but i couldnt resist
If u put ur heart to it and dnt cheat on him the best thing to do is find another guy
If not then well just stick with him but u wont be happy
2006-06-13 01:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by Fancy_shit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say you love someone that not only you cheated on, but who cheated on you? Have you no pride?
Yes I know everyone makes mistakes, but for me that one is unforgivable.
You should move on, find someone that you actually love enough to stay faithful to, and let him find someone that he can remain faithful to, because it obviously isn't going to be each other for the two of you.
2006-06-13 01:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by whatelks67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation with you and understand you very clearly.
Despite of these events if you still love eachother crazily; I want you to remember something now. Real love can't be find easily... And also don't forget that people can understand their mistakes.
2006-06-13 01:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by Thyke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been in a simular situation...and if you honestly think you love him, and could be with him for a long time or you could marry him then i think you should stay with him but make sure he knows it isnt ok to cheat on you.
2006-06-13 01:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chula if, your seriously in love with him and him you neither of you would of cheated. There's no trust. Split for awhile and meet up again after you both have matured a little. Worked for me.
2006-06-13 01:08:30 · answer #11 · answered by cindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋