I am an atheist. I have no problems dating a person of faith. I have a lot of respect for the faith and beliefs of others. I feel that if you connect well with a person, beliefs should not be an issue. Love is a human emotion and if I should fall in love with a person of faith, I am willing to accept that they have different ideas than me.
If you both have respect for one another's beliefs and are willing to discuss any differences in opinions maturely, a well balanced relationship will thrive.
2006-06-12 18:08:38
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answered by cute_valley_boys 3
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Committed Christian here..........I know my opinion was not asked for, but I may have something constructive to offer. I think it would be better for non-believers to date other non-believers. There is really a small number of believers, non-believers too, and then everybody else who hasn't taken the time to develop a position on so important of a topic.
The basic life motivations of believers and non-believers is very different to the point that there could not possibly be consensus on many of the most important life decisions.
If anyone is looking for a lasting relationship, both sides of the fence should stay well clear of the wishy-washy luke warm types. They just drift along, which is their right, but I just don't think you can count on them to take a stand on or commit to anything, including your relationship.
2006-06-13 01:25:33
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answered by electricpole 7
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It doesn't matter to me; as long as they believe, and don't constantly talk about it in every situation. I do the same by not saying that it's "all lies!!!GRRRR!!!" or something.
I just think we'd be okay if some people would understand that Saying nothing, in some cases, is better than having an opinion at all.
2006-06-13 01:05:35
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answered by Stephenaux 3
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I would rather date someone who is *intelligent* and respectful of other Paths, and has NO interest in converting me to whatever religion. Religion isn't an issue....only if the OTHER person makes it so.
As a preference, yes, I would rather date other non-theists, but I am not closed to the possibillity of dating other theists if we like each other enough. :-)
2006-06-13 05:09:57
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answered by Nikki 6
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Ultimately it does not matter to me. If I like the chic I like the chic. But of course there has to be understanding. Like for example she would have to accept the fact that I hate religion in government and I will accept that she is going to wake me up way too early on Sundays.
2006-06-13 01:17:24
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answered by megal 1
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If I were dating, yes, but I would be willing to shack up with anyone hot really. For a more serious relationship, I'd prefer someone who does not oppose me on principles she considers important.
2006-06-13 01:05:02
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answered by lenny 7
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Heck no. I prefer dating believers. Especially Christian women.
Christian women are so starved for real love and affection, they nearly eat a (non believer) guy alive once you are alone. They shed any pretense of "Jesus loves me" or any of that other crap.
The more holy roller, the better.
2006-06-13 01:06:53
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answered by Left the building 7
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I never asked what religion people are as a qualification for whether or not I would date them. I have dated people with various religious backgrounds and have been fine with it.
Blessed Be
2006-06-13 03:01:38
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answered by genaddt 7
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Well, I would prefer to date intelligent people, but then as I see it it's pretty much the same thing.
2006-06-13 02:22:21
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answered by ? 4
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I tend to think of myself as agnostic. If I were to date someone that had complete faith in a higher being, then I would hope that the guy doesnt try to force his beliefs on me. I would expect him to understand and accept my beliefs or nonbeliefs just as I would accept his.
2006-06-13 01:45:58
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answered by mystrugglewithin 1
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