Why when a boyfriend break up wit dem they think its their fault and get all depressed
2006-06-12 17:51:22 · 19 answers · asked by rep da yay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because a girl feels like the boy obviously broke up with her for a thing she said or did that triggered the break up. and they take that with the next relationship and try not to bring those problems in with a new man but that doesnt always work. cause if there wasnt nothing that they did then what would be the cause of the break up in the first place. my last relationship was my fault cause of something i said. so, that is why she would be depressed.
2006-06-12 18:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by msspongebob26 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because If we really felt like the relationship had potential and could have been worked out, we tend to think of all these crazy sufficient remedies that probably could have been used to help the relationship. But since we didn't use them in time enough we usually put the blame on ourselves we the relationship flops. But then you soon have to understand that things are not always going to work out; so you eventually have to move on or if it's meant to be he'll come back to you.
2006-06-13 00:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by brittany_mo2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are very emotional beings. Whether the breakup is anyone's fault, or just a separation.. they tend to be emotional. It's a difficult thing to lose someone you truly care about.
Besides, when it comes to breaking up, both sides should be emotional about it... or it wasn't even a real relationship.
2006-06-13 00:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by Heather D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason some guys get all defensive and go out to try and find a one night stand thinking they are too hot for the ex and better of with out them. It is called pain, or hurt, or losing what you thought was a stable block in you life.
2006-06-13 00:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it wasn't their fault, then they would be the one breaking up with the boy and not the other way around.
2006-06-13 00:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by simba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can't speak for all women, but the reason that I used think its my fault is because sometimes I can be to emotional for my own good. My life is ruled by my emotions.
2006-06-13 01:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they cant handle rejection, so next time you want to break up with a girl just hit her a couple of times and she will break up with you! then you can laugh all the way home.
2006-06-13 00:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by god_of_new 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girls are very sensitive, and they worry too much. not all girls, (cuz i'm not like that) but a lot of them are. they take the blame because they are to weak to see both sides, and they take all the blame. guys should tell girls it's not thier fault that he doesn't like them anymore.
2006-06-13 00:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by sportzgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whats the reasons if they break up??it makes girls think its their fault bcoz not take care of their bf needly..
2006-06-13 00:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by nanna_pito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because what other reason would a guy break up with a girl?
2006-06-13 00:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋