(public displays of affection>PDA) 4 those who dont kno
we dated for three years he says his new gf is jus a way for him 2 coupe with the break up he insisted on and we all hang out wid the same friends and he continues to bring her around and make out with her with me sitting across from him i kno its wrong but i love him so much.. what do i do? two can play that game or jus leave it alone?
2006-06-12 17:40:38 · 11 answers · asked by Stupid Cupid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there. Been there done that. I think he is just trying to get a rise out of you. The "two can play that game" deal never works. You don't need to stoop down to his level and play the immature games. Take the high road and throw the baggage out the window on your way down that road. He has obviously made his choice and if in three years he still can't respect your feelings enough to take his new girlfriend elsewhere...i say IGNORE HIM and move on. Don't even let him know it bothers you. Men love that. Take a nice jog or a yoga class and get your mind off of the situation...you may even meet a nice guy along the way... Cheer up:-)
2006-06-12 17:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by missvxyz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like this guy is a jerk. He's using her as a rebound to see how it affects you. I think that you should try to move on. I bet that it will bother him that you're not sitting around waiting on him to come back. Go out and enjoy your freedom for a while. I know it will be weird. But dont jump into anything. Just go on a few dates, flirt with some guys, you know fun stuff. It will make him mad when he finds out that you're not at home crying. Maybe that will open his eyes when he gets a taste of his own medicine. Good luck.
2006-06-13 00:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Care Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, two can play that game, but that would just make two people that have made bad decisions. It would appear that he is trying to make you jealous. That is wrong. But to go out and do the same to him would be wrong as well. Plus, just using someone to hurt someone else is terrible in itself, just think about how your new boyfriend would feel when he finds that out.
If you still love him, than you can try to get back with him. If you dont, than move on as fast as possible becuase he is obviosuly a hurtufl person.
2006-06-13 00:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a way for him to cope? If he was really having a hard time he would try to get back together with you and just leave her alone. The fact that he makes out with her while you're right there tells me that he really doesn't care. I think you should just let him go and move on with your life. Find someone else who will treat you right and I'm sure things will get better.
2006-06-13 00:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by blue_eyed_roo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. He is using you to make himself feel macho, like he has all these women in his life. Move on. And don't let him think that it bothers you. If it means making some new friends too, then so be it.
He is also using this new girl because he knows it bothers you to see them together. So he's a big loser because he uses women. you're much better off without him.
2006-06-13 00:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by Aemilia753 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stoop to his level. Move on and let him see it. Maybe that is what he needs in order to grow up. When he starts making out with the new gf them walk away like he is the dumbest thing you ever saw. If he loves you then he will ocme around and if he doesn't at least then you will have your answer.
2006-06-13 00:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by ghostlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be smart and leave it alone.
I can see major drama in your future if you keep talking to him. It sounds like he likes being wanted by both of you. He is thinking of himself and no one else. If he really wanted to be with you - he would be. But realistically, he is with her, and you are better off for it. Move on, don't play his game. Work on getting over him, and then when you are ready you will find someone new who is really good for you, someone you deserve and someone who deserves you.
2006-06-13 00:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by whatelks67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is tring to get to you or he has truely moved on it might do you good to find a new group of friends to hang out with so that it not in your face all the time
2006-06-13 00:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by kelly19670 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games with you and his new girlfriend. Don't play his silly little mind games and find someone who won't want their cake and eat it too.
2006-06-13 00:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's only doing this because you are letting him.
obviously he has another girlfriend so stop waiting around for him to see you guys belong together and move on with your life.
2006-06-13 00:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋