she is in love with this guy but she went out with his cousin a long time ago and he won't let it go. he keeps throwing it in her face and it's like he tries to hurt her on purpose and she makes herself vulnerable to him.
2006-06-12 17:28:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her that its not good to make herself vulnerable to him. She needs to know that you care about her and that you'll always be there for her but you hate seeing her hurt like this. Explain to her that what she did a long time ago, happened a long time ago, it was the past, and he needs to accept that. The past is the past, if he's holding it against her what she did in the past, then she just needs to move on to someone else. It only makes it worse on her part because each time he mentions something to her about it, she feels guilty.
2006-06-12 17:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that if a relationship hurts you and makes you unhappy then its not worth keeping. There is plenty of other guys out there and if this guy is hurting you all the time then he is obviously not the one for her. She needs to move on and be happy.
2006-06-13 00:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question she should ask is 'why am I allowing this to happen to me?' Before a person can love anyone else that person must love themself. Then she should do some deep soul searching. Do I have a compulsive disorder inwhich I'm only attracted to those who hurt me? A deeper search for self will unlock realities that may or may not be known or completely understood.
2006-06-13 00:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jeannetta J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has some serious issues with his cousin and he is letting it out on her. If abusive relationship has any meaning to her, I think she will know what to do.
2006-06-13 00:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's plenty more fish in the sea. Did she cheat on his cousin or went out with his cousin before she was with the boyfriend?? If she cheated on him, then he probably won't trust her, if she didn't cheat then it's something he's gotta work out. She should move on.
2006-06-13 00:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is mentally abusing her and it will get worse. He thinks he owns her. She needs to get out before he breaks down her self esteem completely. Guys like him are very bad news.
2006-06-13 00:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOES SHE LIKE TORMENT ?? THAT IS SOMETHING NO MAN IS WORTH....... SHE NEEDS TO BE TOLD TO GET AWAY FROM HIM......... LOVE DOES NOT HURT ON PURPOSE....... IT HURTS YOU AT TIMES, BUT NOT OVER AND OVER AGAIN........... SORRY, THIS GUY IS JUST NOT WORTH THE PAIN......... LOVE FORGIVES AND LETS GO OF WRONGS........ GOD BLESS
2006-06-13 00:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to catch the "next bus." And next time, stay away from the driver!
2006-06-13 00:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Rocket Squirrel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then why does she like him if he hurts her. let her try and find some other guy that wont hurt her!
2006-06-13 00:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if he keeps hurting her... hes not worth it!
2006-06-13 00:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by ♥►Missy◄♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋