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Question

There's this girl I like, but I don't know how to tell her. What Should I say or do?

Answer 1

I always think the straight forward approach is attractive - it shows you have some balls, yet not in the typically pseudo-masculine obnoxious way. Ask her if she like to grab a drink sometime, or if you are not yet 21, to grab some coffee.

Answer 2

Well next time u can get her alone talk with her... when talking to a women whether its a first date or whatever always focus on them eg 'you look beautiful' what do u do for a living' ' did u have a nice weekend' when in conversation always look into her eyes never look below her neck when she is speaking to u and try not to fidget or look nervous. Women like a guy with confidence. Then when the conversation is about to end ' ask maybe we could do something this weeekend... see a movie, grab a coffee' or something along those lines.... she will see that you are a decent guy because u have had an chat with her without looking at her jiggly bits or just talking S H I T lol good luck

Answer 3

Well, first of all, you need to ask yourself the question what is it that you like about her. Secondly, just be open and honest with her, that is the only way that you will know if she feels the same way. If she does not then at least you would feel better that you told her how you felt and you can then move on from there. Good Luck.

Answer 4

You look her in the eye, smile big, and ask her out to dinner. Over dinner, you tell her how beautiful she is and tell her you like her. If she says she likes you back, you've won! If she doesn't feel the same way about you, at least you won't spend your life wondering "what if". And you'll be able to move on to another girl. Good luck to you!!

Answer 5

Just tell her straight up (face2face) Never be afraid 2tell some how u feel. (DON'T USE ANY STUPID LINES like "Girl are you tired cause you been running through my mind allday" A mayjor turnoff!) & if she doesnt like then don't give up u'll find the right girl 4u eventualy! Good Luck!

Answer 6

become a psycho stalker, follow her everywhere. Leave a love letter on her windshield. Send her flowers and write a creepy note telling her how beautiful she looks showering. That will win her heart!

Answer 7

If you are really good friends then find out if she likes you first and if she does then go for it but if you still arent sure after that then just go for it because what is life without taking chances? I had a friend who I liked a whole lot but wasnt totally sure if he was into me but one day I told him I liked him and he asked me out!

Answer 8

I would try to get a bit closer to her first i.e. start talking to her more and then ask her out.

Let her know you're alive first, then work on a relationship with her. Who knows, she might not be the person you think she is.

Answer 9

That's a tough one. Actually, everybody goes through this problem a couple times within their life. Quite the coincidence -- I am going through the same problem myself.

It's quite a thing to go through... you are scared because you want to prevent yourself from getting hurt, but then again, you want to take the risk, because what if she DOES say yes?

I could be generic and tell you what everyone else probably will: ask her to hang out with you and a bunch of your friends. Flirt with her and smile. Talk to her more than you usually do. You get the picture, right?

I'm 17... so I may not know a lot, but I have asked 2 guys out in my lifetime. The first one I asked in a note back in seventh grade... didn't work out too well. I don't suggest you write a note, because when asking someone out it's best to be personable, do it in front of their face, people would rather hear it from you than glance on a stupid piece of paper and read what you've written. Sorry... but it's true.

My ex-boyfriend I asked out last fall... we went out for four months. It didn't quite work out with him, though, because he only "pretended" to like me (long story but I won't get into it). But the fact is, I went into work one day, saw him, said hi, and straightforwardly asked him to his face, "Do you want to go to a school dance with me?" and he said yes; and a week later I asked if he wanted to be my boyfriend, and he said yes.

It's a matter of... well, whether or not you're willing to sitr up your guts or not. The fact is, you're going to have to make conversation with her and talk to her and be nervous around her if you do have these feelings...

Whether or not you decide to go to the next level and ask her out is your decision...

Like I said, I could be generic and tell you what everybody else is saying. And maybe in the long run, I am just telling you what everybody else is saying, I'm just making it fifty billion paragraphs long.

The fact is: don't be scared of getting hurt. Don't be scared of risks. It's a once in a lifetime thing. When you're older, you're going to be thinking back, and wishing you did something about this crush (that is, if you really like her a lot... you did not in fact, mention how much you really do like her...).

I say, go for it!!

Muster up all your courage. You don't necessarily have to ask her out, out of the blue, you can get to know her first if you haven't already... but when you are ready to take the next step and ask her out, don't be afraid. Be confident. I know you can do it!

And if she breaks your heart, consider it a good thing. Because she's being honest with you -- if she really doesn't like you and says yes to you anyway, then she's only going to cause you a million more times worth of heartbreak.

I encourage you to go for it!! Good luck with everything!!

Sorry for the billion words.

Answer 10

You should try to flirt with her (you know compliment her a little) and see from there. If you see a connection, ask her to go out sometime. If she still isn't diggin', look elsewhere.