Wtf is up with this?

Question

Okay, so my girlfriend and I got caught about a year ago, she was giving me a ******* in her room and her mom walked in. Her mom didn't really make too big a deal of it, she just grounded her for like a week. Anyways... Now, a year later, she doesn't allow me to stay the night. I can come over and stay until midnight, but I have to go over to her grandmas house to sleep which is next door (can't go home, too far away)

Here is why: Her and her mom got into an argument a month ago and she didn't allow me over for the month. She was grounded from me (she will ground her just from me lots of times and allow her to talk with her friends). After the one month was up and my GF told her mom I was coming back to stay, she said she changed her mind and that I would not be allowed to stay the night any more because boys staying are a bad influence for her younger sisters. I would have to stay at her grandmas.

The good part is, today my brother went over to hang out with friends and my GF's mom is going to let him sleep there because he has nowhere else. Why!? If boys are a bad influence to the kids, why? There has to be another reason.

I had been staying there for a year and a half, and then all of a sudden this. If the kids a going to be ruined, they already are.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS WOMAN!?

She wasn't worried about her for the first 1 1/2 years of us dating.

But I don't understand why she would let me even after she caught us. I stayed for at least 6 months after she caught us doing that, and when she found out about that she found out about sex, too. What is she afraid of now that she didn't already know?

Besides, this woman stays up til 4 in the morning. I leave at midnight to grandmas and come back at about 8 in the morning, we have sex at her house and then we go to sleep and tell her mom I got there at 10.

One time, her mom had the recliner pulled up in front of the TV and we had sex on the couch right behind her in the same room under sheets.

That goes to show just hom much of an idiot this woman is if she thinks she is going to stop us from having sex. We're old enough to get married. I don't know what the big deal is. And she won't let her come here very often either, so it isn't because she doesn't want us doing it in her house.

She isn't gonna get pregnant either. She is on the pill and we use a rubber. There is close to zero percent chance.

You see, I would just get an apartment instead of screwing in our parents' houses all the time, but I'm going to college and it's taking all of the money.

Once I'm finished it's a sure thing, but I don't know how me and her are going to make it through the next 4 years under the current situation.

Answer 1

If your old enough to get married you being a man and having sex why don't you be the man and get y'all an apartment : ) you don't have all the other problems. Easy problem solved

Answer 2

Ah, mom probably thinks you as a couple, will do more as the night progresses, and has lost trust in you. But because there is no relation between her daughter and the guy, its okay. Sorry!

Answer 3

MAN THATS ONE LONG NEWSPAPER BUT ANYWAY DUDE SHES PROBABLY WORRIED THAT SHE MIGHT CATCH HER SUCKING U OFF AND BRO SHE GOT GROUNDED FOR A MONTH THATS A COOL *** MOM MAYBE UR BROTHER IS GOING TO DO THE SAME THING JUST GO IN THRU THE WINDOW

Answer 4

FIRST THING HOW OLD ARE YOU AND YOUR GIRLFRIEND I WOULD SIT DOWN AND HAVE A TALK WITH YOUR GIRL FRIEND AND HER MOTHER AND ASK HER WHAT THE PROBLEM IS THEN MAYBE YOU ALL COULD WORK ON IT AND FIX THE PROBLEM

Answer 5

maybe shes worried about her daughter