You are at a party, how do you kindly let other girls know that your man is taken?

Question

Your man just happen to be the most attractive male at a party. Almost everyone knows you came together but there are some girls who don't respect that. They're always trying to wiggle their way into his arms when you're not around. Some men would say straight out, "I'm with her" and wink over your way, but some men like the attention even though he knows he's going home with you. So how do you, without causing a scene or being too obvious, walk into their conversation and let her know that he won't be serious about her....because he's already yours.

Answer 1

What's going on here, this guy is playing "let's you and her fight" to show his power over you? Why are you putting up with this crap? Are you that desperate?

And then you come in here telling how it all the fault of these "wiggling girls" taking advantage of that poor innocent little man of yours? He isn't a man and he sure isn't yours, honey. It's HIS job to let these girls know he isn't available, NOT yours. There is NO WAY to do what you are asking without making a ridiculous fool of yourself. Stop excusing this trifling behavior and dump the jerk!

Answer 2

People often fall in a rut in life and they literally take for granted what they have. How long has it been since the breakup? I've been in a similar situation and was left wondering 'why??' and 7 months later (after I hardly think of my ex anymore, he calls me out-of-the-blue!) My point is he made need some time to realize what he's lost. But I'm wondering why you would want a guy like this. It seems like you were putting much more effort and care into this relationship than he was and that can never work in the long run. So the real question is, if he does come back, will you take him back??

Answer 3

You said this happens when you're not around. Why aren't you? You should stay with him when he mingles at a party not let him roam around by himself. If you're always holding his hand or have your arm around his waist everybody will know he's taken.
Does he know he's yours or is it your little secret.

Answer 4

First of all he shouldn't be over nowhere talking to nobody else. If he sees someone he knows, a simple wave or hi is sufficient. But it is, hard to keep your eyes off of a fine brotha. Give them tricks a look.......like dont even think about it. If you two are together they know it, they just don't care. I would give them hoochies a look so mean they would think twice.

Answer 5

I will never EVER spat with another chick over a guy. If he does not shake them off and/or make it obvious he is NOT available, then I would cut him loose.

My husband is usually the hottest guy at get-togethers, and he has had to shake off chicks (even married ones) for a long, long time. If he didn't do this, he wouldn't still be married to me.

Answer 6

Personally, I wouldn't. I would rather know my SO can not set his own boundaries without finding out after he's cheated. I know that's not the popular reaction, but I refuse to babysit an adult.

Answer 7

THere is no kind way to let a girl know your man is taken.... just go up to her and go.... sorry but he's mine or sumthin like that

Answer 8

It's not up to you. It's up to him. If he is not making that clear to other girls, he is not respecting you. If your guy really loves you, he won't put you in that position. Ever.

Answer 9

it shouldn't be the girls you have to talk to... your man should make it obvious that hes taken, if not then tell him you don't like it when hes flirting and giving off mixed signals to other girls.

Answer 10

Walk over to him, kiss him, and say "hey honey". If other girls don't get the message then, then they are sluts, and don't care if a guy had a gf or not.