MY FIANCE HAS KIDS FROM HIS FIRST WIFE,HE REALLY HATES HER but he seems to always on the phone with her if he loves me and not her why does he always talk to her on the phone w/her if he cant stand her,should i be jealous???
2006-06-12 16:20:41 · 19 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends what they talk about.....do they talk about the children and thier issues, or does he want to know what nightie she's wearing to bed?? They have kids together, face it....she's going to continue to part of your relationship. Personally, I'd find someone without the baggage.....relationships are hard enough. Besides, there is a VERY fine line between love/hate/ Emotions that strong tend to blur into each other.
2006-06-12 16:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He talks to her because she is the gatekeeper. He has to get through her to talk to his children. They also probably discuss the childrens' behavior, health matters, school work and grades, after school sports, perhaps the children are also in counseling due to the divorce of their parents. Do not internalize everything. Do not be jealous over this. Do not force him to choose. He will choose his children. Think logically not emotionally.
2006-06-12 16:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by ryzent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your looking for something different, then drop him...otherwise you should not be jealous if he hates her, but has kids with her. This is your call, if you don't like the situation, and you don't like the kids, you should do both of you a favor and call it quits.
2006-06-12 16:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has children with her. He will ALWAYS be attached to her because of the children. YOU will need to learn to deal with this. You will be marrying a man with baggage, if you can't accept that now, don't bother marrying him it will NOT get better.
No, you should not be jealous.
2006-06-12 16:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when people have kids together they have to communicate on pickups, dropoffs, sicknesses, playdates, soccer games, ect. You shouldn't care. it just sounds like he stays in touch so he can make sure the kids are okay. Dont worry about it.
2006-06-12 16:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by 128333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause she's the mother of his children? Even if he hates her, he has a responsibility to be there for her, whether or not he still loves her.
2006-06-12 16:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by sharky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he still has kids to her and in order for him to still see his children without such a hassle he still needs to be able to speak to her plesantly even though he hates her guts its all for the kids sake but thats the line talking nothing else
2006-06-12 16:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know because thats his babys mama he should at lease still love her a little bit because she had his kids and that is the most beutifulest thing u can have
2006-06-12 16:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by marriah k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i agree 100% with this statement that you shuld very confidently " DROP THE ZERO AND GET A HERO"
2006-06-12 16:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by fari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not be jealous because you have his *** and his money and she is just stuck with the past.
2006-06-12 16:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋