Say you are going out with a girl you like. She is everything that you have always wanted. You let her know that and that you want to marry her and have babies with her. However, you are shy and in your culture the woman usually inisiate the relationships. Sometimes you tell her that you'll call her but then you don't. Sometimes you tell her that you'll call and you do. She invites you to go to the movies and you never call her about a time that works for you. And when she calls you to see what's up and to make sure that your not dead (after not hearing from you in days) you tell her that, "Oh I can't go out today cause my cars having trouble, I'll call you later" and then don't call her. Why would you do that, what does that mean?
2006-06-12 16:12:57 · 4 answers · asked by bellacervantes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay Bella, I've noticed that you have posted several different questions about this guy. It's going to be difficult, but you need to move on! This guy obviously doesn't realize what a great woman you are, and probably doesn't love himself to want that in his life. And you need to realize that you deserve more. I know your heart is very attached to him right now and it's hard to imagine him not being in your life. One day you will ask yourself, "Was I stressing over that loser? What was wrong with me?"
The right one for you will come along eventually, but this guy is not it. He'll voice those same promises, but when he does, there will be no question in your heart that he's sincere.
2006-06-12 16:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by smewth-e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is a strange behavior but if ur not comfortable with him u probably deserve someone else who keeps above evrything thats important to him. if i stop talking to a girl for awhile it would mean that im bored and i want someone else but cant think of a way to end it with her so if u really want him to care about u let him feel he needs you and play it like its a game and dont worry hell love thats how my girl gets me back with her lol... hope u know what im tryin say,,, take care sometimes its not worth thinking about the wierdness in guys.
2006-06-12 23:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by im_a_prince07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means he's a guy who wants to do things when he's ready and not b 4. Means that if he says he wants to go out u are to be ready but if u call hm to go out and he doesn't feel like it he's not gonna go.
So now what u need to do is to do the same whenever he calls u u shouldn't have time or make the time for him( let him se how it feels) if u ask him out and he says no or whatever reason then go out with ur friends don't wait for him and if he calls as ur getting ready to hangout with ur friends don't go with him say I already made plans, u waited to late.
And go out with ur girls and have a great time. If he calls why ur out with them DON'T ANSWER call him when u feel like talking .
If he trys to run the guilt trip on u just laugh and say " nice try sweets but I don't have time for this" Tell " Hey when u start treating me like ur g/f who u want to be with then I return the feelings. And I'm not gonna wait around for u if I want to go out and u don't so either get used to it or start acting like I mean something to you"
If he feels anything for u then he will do as u ask if not, move on to a guy who treats u like a girlfriend he wants to be with
2006-06-12 23:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets just say he is dishonest with her
2006-06-12 23:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋