if you were just told by your boyfriend that he would never break up with you and a week after he breaks up with you and tells you its because of your dad. then later tells you that he wants to get back with you when school starts. then you make one mistake of saying why did you lie to me about not never breaking up. then he goes out of control and says dont ever call me again or email me again. but then sends you emails with chain letters. then you tell him dont email me anymore but he sends you an email about he has a girlfriend already less than a week later. dont you think that is stupid? and why are boys like that? do they just like acting stupid or what?
2006-06-12 16:03:26 · 39 answers · asked by msspongebob26 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no matter how old you are, it's always gonna take a boy another 3 to 5 years to catch up w/ u
if he goes outta control off a whim like that I hope you say good riddens to his sorry ***. yes it is stupid but ( sorry guys I <3 u all really) BOYS ARE DUMB when it comes to figuring ladies out. you want him to get the point keep it short simple sweet and most importantly obvious. this way he understands u and ur not setting urself up for disappointment.
2006-06-12 16:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm a guy and I'll peg this one out for you: the former boyfriend has some serious dysfunctional issues you should pray to God grateful you don't have to deal with them.
As for the chain letter emails, former BF may have subscribed to an e-joke service that automatically sends such garbage to whomever he directs them to. Normally, you can UNSUBSCRIBE to them if you know where to look (normally on the bottom of such silly e-mails).
You might also look into filtering out the emails from the former BF, or starting up a new e-mail account telling everyone your new e-address....leaving out the boorishly immature former BF.
2006-06-12 16:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the behavior of a sick underdeveloped mind, not all males are of this ilk.There are plenty of good guys out there in the world. Drop the sad sack and move on to a better class of Guy. Then you can e-mail the jerky boy and say, you've decided to move up the food chain, junk is no longer a requirement in your daily diet..Good Luck
2006-06-12 16:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by TWINKLES 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry sweetie but he sounds like a big jerk. Just let him go don't even bother trying to justify him at all. Sounds like he is the type that snaps and just likes to play little stupid child games. Let him keep on playing his little games and just an FYI if you do get back with him than your the idiot because sounds like you are just a stand by nothing more. Take this in the best way.
2006-06-12 16:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called they do not know what they want. At 39, I am honestly going thru something similiar with a 42 yr. old man. I would so like to be in a relationship with him, but he just does not seem to get it. He has been bouncing in & out of my life for 8 mths. now. I figure he will either get it together or I will find someone else first. Most likely the same will happen for you.
2006-06-12 16:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by jinjess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep it is stupid. Not all are the same, he just sounds like an immature prick. Find yourself a BF with a bit more maturity there are some good guys out there you just have to look around a bit
2006-06-12 16:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by kel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that sounds really stupid and I'm not even sure why guys act that way the only I can think of is that they don't know wht they want but yeah don't get back with that a**h*** hes stupid.
Go find a hotter cooler guy GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2006-06-12 16:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order and draw the lines out very clearly for him. he broke up with you and when he did that he lost the right to be forgiven when he does something stupid. tell him flat out to stop with the e-mails and phone calls. u wont be used by him as a backup girlfriend. he's the one who decided it was over so finish it! no more strings at ached!
2006-06-12 16:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't necessarily think they like to act stupid but they are very immature. Don't even waste your time thinking about that anymore,start looking for someone new.
2006-06-12 16:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by KAI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he is using u or he doesnt know if he wants u or not
like all others i advise u to stop talking and thinking about him and move on
guys dont get much better but im sure u can find a guy thats ur type
good luck
2006-06-12 16:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by danamahmoud_1992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋