i have known this girl for quite some time now, and just started showing feelings for her. she just hooked up with a really good friend of mine. do i go for her, or do i stay loyal to my not so loyal friend? if i go with the girl, how doi get her away form her guy?
2006-06-12 16:01:39 · 8 answers · asked by Sandman23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok to all of you "Bro's before Ho's" need to get a grip. She may have not realized you were attracted to her. And by hooking up do you mean "slept with" or "dating". If he just screwed here, there is no rules and if you dont mind sloppy seconds, go for it. If they aren't serious or exclusive, there is nothing wrong with talking to him to see how he feels about her, or talking to her to see how she feels about him. Test the waters. But dont toture yourself and wait for them to break up just to swoop in. Sometimes dating someone elses "girl" can mess things up between you and the friend. I dated a guy that asked me if he could date my best friend after we broke up. I didnt say no, but it still hurt like hell.
So, you have to decide, #1 is she worth it. #2 how serious are they? #3 do you feel the competition between the two of you (you and your friend) would be strong enough or break your bond. It just depends on how close you are to him and how close they are to each other. Sometimes its not worth it to ruin a friendship over a chick, but you may have already missed your opportunity if she got to him before you could get to her.
Good luck.
2006-06-12 16:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by southrntrnzplnt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy Oh boy! Y did u wait too let to tell her how u feel?
If she likes a friend of Ur's it may be a bad idea to tell her because if she knows about this then it can be very awkward for her to be around u and the friend.
Unles the guy is truely NO GOOD for her then u may should just grin and bare it and move on
2006-06-12 16:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She went for another guy, which means she's not into you. That is a clear sign for you to move onto someone who is worth you time and you heart. You never know what might happen, but honestly, she hooked up with your friend...why go that way again and trying to "steal" her away from your friend..is only gonna cause trouble.
2006-06-12 16:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay calm k and eventually they'll break up .do u even know if she feels the same way about u?if she does shell ask u out and have fun .shes probably trying to make u jealous till the pont u get mad and ask her out then shell say yes .itll all work out k u have other more important things or goals then be worring about just this girl who isnt anything .....lol just be true to yourself.
2006-06-12 16:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by I want to believe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen there is only one rule to this situation and that is Bros before Hoes. friendships last forever man dont blow it on some girl. if your your friend has no intrest in her then yea go for it but otherwise stick with ur buddy.
btw props to the irish man.
2006-06-12 16:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay loyal to your friend. Friends are always their, you can get a new girl anytime, anywhere.
2006-06-12 16:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her and shes happy with your friend just leave her if you really like her try like talking to her every once in a while and stuff IF YOU ARE DESPERATE ASK HER OUT GIVE HER STUFF AND STUFF LIKE THAT!
2006-06-12 16:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 words bros before hoes
2006-06-12 16:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋