I do plan on supporting the baby.
2006-06-12 16:01:03 · 27 answers · asked by hypothetical 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are really freaking out dude!
Are you positive the baby is yours? Maury Povich has proven time and time again that even when a women is 200% sure it is possible that you are not the father.
Based on your current level of anxiety, this baby must be yours. Think about it. Would you really want to deprive a child of a good life? Imagine how difficult it would be for this child if it had to grow up in poverty. I don't know why you are trying so hard to deny this woman support. When you hold that baby in your arms, you will willingly give your wallet to the mother. Despite your current desires, no attorney, court or judge will draw up anything to help you avoid your responsibility.
In the meantime just chill. She was good enough to lay up with, so man up and get ready. Whether you like it or not your gonna be a daddy. Your girl would be a fool to sign anything that would relinquish her rights to financial support. Next time wear a condom, better yet get a vasectomy!
2006-06-12 16:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by ms_diva_dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do such a selfish thing anyway. Your a jackass. A real man would be glad to pay child support and wouldnt dare make the mom sign a paper saying that crap. Your a deadbeat and I hope she puts you through the ringer. You deserve it. You are legally obligated to support that child until the child is 18 and in some cases 23. So face the future now that your a father. Grow up.
2006-06-12 23:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by AstonishingAries<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to a lawyer or some type of social service agency and ask about filling out some paperwork now to make an agreement on some type of sum that you will pay her each month to support the baby. Trust me, she will change her mind later and even if you pay her now, she will say you didn't. Someone I know used to get receipts from his child's mother and now just has it deducted from his pay check so he has legal proof that he has paid her each month. That way she can't say he never paid her or that he forged a receipt. Good luck and good for you for supporting the child you made. The money is for the child, not for the mother you might not care about anymore.
2006-06-12 23:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by msdifranco2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan on being a part of the childs life , then you need to draw up a contact before hand stipulating conditions or get an attorney. I promis hard times come around for the mother to be and SHE WILL FILE FOR CHILD SUPPORT! ( or ask you to sign off your rights and have nothing to do with the child) . Get an attorney if this child means anything to you,dont drag it on and let the kid see u fighting.
2006-06-12 23:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by angelw/brkwingcrookedhalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But as long as you save proof that you help her enough you wont be in trouble with the child support office buy make sure you always giv e her check or money order because that way she wont be able to even collect welfare and if she does you wont have to pay back she will. Just make sure to always help her if not you will pay the expaensive way cause child support charges back child support and with interest
2006-06-12 23:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a crappy question.
First of all, she can't sign away the child's *RIGHT* to child support. It's not up to HER. If she's got enough money to raise the child on her own and she doesn't want to "charge" (*snork and chuckle*) you for it, that's one thing. But regardless of what she "signs," if she ever goes for support of the child from the state, from insurance to welfare, they're going to come after YOU before giving her anything - as well they should.
If you plan on supporting the baby, your question is just stupid. Sounds to me like you want to tell yourself you plan on "supporting" it with a pack of diapers here and a jar of bananas there, but you don't want anyone to come after you for a couple of hundred bucks a month.
How would YOU feel if your dad said this about YOU before you were born? Heck, maybe he did and that's where this question comes from - maybe it's all you know - but it's still a *crappy* question.
2006-06-12 23:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by tagi_65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's doing it to protect the child. If she doesn't do it and then down the road you marry somebody else and have other children.......you may find yourself having money problems.....it'll be so easy for you to either not give her any money or give her a portion of it. She needs to know that every month on a certain day she can count on getting a certain amount of money. She has to think of the child before any loyalty to you. It's not about you anymore. Since you plan on doing it anyway, what's the big deal?
2006-06-12 23:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every questions u posted has something to do with this child support crap. why are u stressin it, it's not like she made the child herself, so why should you be exempt from supporting this child. i hope she sticks it to hard. and just to let u know there is know signing something do get out of child support, nice try, i suggest, u sign over all parental rights, and stay the hell out of that women and babies life, u obviosly, are not man enough to be bringing children into this world
2006-06-13 13:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by yunv03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are still in good terms get her to sing an agreement where you state how much you are going to give her because women tend to change their minds when they don't sleep properly for the next three months. It's hard and expensive to raise kids and without the fathers support you child will be another statistic.
2006-06-12 23:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by chilota 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child custody and divorce courts favor women. All women know this fact and doubts exist they'll be all too eager to sign away their rights that easily. Great you plan on supporting your child, just be assurred the child's mother will very likely flex her court room rights if need be.
2006-06-12 23:05:14 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋