myself ash n having an affair for the last 7 yrs but for the last 4 mths i had a fight wth my bf due to insecr

Question

-ity n communication gap.i tried my best to keep tis relation like before but now he is nt listening to me n nt even talking to me.i dnt knw wat to do.he cut it off his old no.i knw he loves me but rite now he is so frustrated from me bcoz of my behaviour,i want him back.pls give me a gud advice so that evevrything ll b just like before.my friends told me to give sum space to ur relationship n dnt contact him as we know it was ur mistake but u apologise so many times so wait for 3 4 mths if he loves u he ll come back u tell me wat to do

Answer 1

I'm not really sure what you wrote but if you cheated on him, you don't deserve him, sorry.

Answer 2

Insecurity and communication gap? Ya think? He has been cheating on someone with you. What makes you think he's not or will not cheat on you too? There's an old expression your grandmother may have told you - if not ask her - "Those who speak poorly of others, speak poorly of you to others too." Same goes for cheating. Either you want to be in a relationship that will cause you pain and you get in relationships like this - or you don't. If you don't, then don't get involved with people who cheat on others - WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU? Nothing to take personally, just trying to give you a kick in the *** in the right direction.

Answer 3

The first thing I would do is learn how to spell. Once you've got that down, I would learn how to type. And please...start using the shift key.

You can probably do this by having an affair with a teacher instead of whatever guy you're f**king currently. Seriously, people might think you're dumb.

Answer 4

an affair for seven years, I will tell ya honey, if you don't know what makes this dude tick after seven years, we sure as hell don't know what to tell you. the biggest problem with 7 years is he know what makes you tick, and anything you do, he will resist, he know you are manipulating. I say the same thing, leave him alone, you may be getting some payback for not leaving your husband after 7 years. there isn't much you can do aside from waiting to see where it goes. I know control freaks don't like to wait, they want resolution and they want it now, you aren't making the rules any more. he found the strength within to quit following you.

Answer 5

Go take a class in English and quit worrying about the boys.

Answer 6

i think you are screwed, he ain't coming back, i sure as hell wouldn't come back

Answer 7

u shouldn't be cheating any way

Answer 8

huh?

Answer 9

what?

Answer 10

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