okay i am 14 and i dont no how to get this boy that i like ALOT to like even have a though he would b with me. im not good at this stuff. okay schools over. he lives on the other side of town like...10 mins away by no 1 i no!! i gave him my # in the year book. and i am sure that i love him. but i dont no if he feel s the same. should i wait till next year or try to all summer long???!!! help!!email me or soemthing!
2006-06-12 15:57:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First go for him now, you will drive yourself crazy all summer if you don't, first call him and ask if he wants to hang out, then flirt for him little by little, then really flirt with him, if he doesn't get the idea, say to him "you don't have a girlfried do you, so i am going to be" he will go for you right there, guys love girls who know what they want AND ***** ALL THOSE PEOPLE WHO SAY YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO KNOW WHAT LOVE IS, HOW THE HELL WOULD YOU KNOW, YOUR NOT OUR AGE DUMBASS, LOVE ISN'T MEASURED BY HOW OLD YOU ARE
2006-06-12 16:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by Pandora Tommorow 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Over the summer break will be hard for you to get connected with him...
There is only a 50% guarantee that he will call you from the number you left on the yearbook...
Girl, you are only feeling this way coz' stuff is still fresh in your mind and school just ended...
YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE NEW AND EXCITING BEFORE YOU KNOW IT... AND THIS GUY WILL BE HISTORY!!!
Just like you said, you are 14, you have so many options and so much time to do whatever you please... Don't get hung-up with this dude from the "other side of town"...
2006-06-12 23:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 13 when I got into my first serious relationship. I know that doesn't seem possible, but it is. I have been with the guy for 2 years now. The thing is I wouldn't say love that soon. If you really care for him though there is no reason not to call him and at least hang out this summer. Who knows maybe it will be right for you two. Good luck and be careful.
2006-06-12 23:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by sexylilgirl_idealmgf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u may think ur in love but there are much more guys out there to love too. wait till he calls u. If he never calls either have a good summer without hangin with him or find a friend that is friends with him and start talkin to them and maybe ya'll will all hang out one day!
2006-06-12 23:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief. All this angst and you're only 14? You should wait a year or two. Don't be in such a hurry. When you're a little older you'll know how to handle this situation and you won't have to ask strangers for advice.
2006-06-12 23:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Fall Down Laughing 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh! sorry girl.. it is not sham to love some one n love doesn't need age so get relex and think i can tell u one way but i think it will work if u have best-girl friend she can help u to get him in this way she will go and ask him some question like do u have any girl friend if he says "no" it is too easy n if he says" yes" it is also easy so there is no nathing to worry for exmple if he says yes so u will be normal friend to him then u will slowly show him ur love u will joke with him u will play with him but don't tell him that u love him ok until he feels then still if he feel love u will not tell him that u love him until he tell u that he loves u
but it is not big problem just if u have bestfriend send it to him. any more idea if u need u can contact me so i will try to help u but prosime be 2be have ^_^ :)
2006-06-12 23:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by the hiro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 14 years old, honestly i do not believe that you are in love with him, so i think that your best bet would be to just hang out with him, ask him if he wants to chill or something. You are trying to rush feelings that are not there yet, & that is a no-no, you will scare him away, so just relax, & recognize that you are not in love, that you have a crush, & try to deal with that a while.
2006-06-12 23:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us 13-14 yr. old kids don't know what love is, and by what you say it's just a crush, call him, and see what happens, You'll see him next year, so talk to him so more then.
2006-06-12 23:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go slow. Especially at your age. You don't know him that well. Your feelings could get hurt and your ideals might miss lead you. Contact him as a friend if you can and keep your freedom.
2006-06-12 23:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by hjhprov 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as he is not older than 16, keep trying during the summer.
2006-06-12 23:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋