my guy and i have been together for awhile and he teases me and play fights with me... and he accidentally slaped me... he didnt mean it he was just playing and i got mad... what should i tell him?
2006-06-12 15:42:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
COMMUNICATE... and set boundries. Some playful fighting ca be good.... but only if both parties agree to that. It can add an element of spice. But there must be clear established boundries and limits. Tell him what you feel in a discussion type setting and tone... but it must also be matter of fact.
2006-06-12 15:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by tcatmech2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to say you two were playing. That is exactly why I don't play like that because accident do happen and sometimes you take things personally when things hurt more than you expect them to. I think that you two should talk about it and not do it again instead of play fighting how about tickling : )
2006-06-12 22:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are only a girl, so dont treat you like a guy friend of his. Did he say sorry and act like he cared about u got slapped??? If he did, then it was only an accident. If he didnt, you NEED to talk to him, and set a limit too.
2006-06-12 22:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by viola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to be more careful next time you dont want to mistake somethin besides if he has never hit you before why are you askin the question?????????? he probabley just got carried away and didnt know that he hit u or when he did he was gonna do somethin else thats what usually happens...........
2006-06-12 22:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if you are playing or not, being slapped still hurts! abuse is still abuse! Don't let it start now by him telling you he didn't mean to, maybe he didn't, maybe he did, but I would talk to him about it. I know my BF, would never slap me even if he was kidding, being slapped isn't a joke, there are other ways to be funny.
2006-06-12 22:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by broadwaystar162002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to him and tell him it made you uncomfortable, and alothough you know he isnt like that..set a limit for when u r play fighting...have it be a word like puppy and if you say puppy thats it no more playfighting
2006-06-12 22:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he EVER puts his hands on you AGAIN, accidentally or WHATEVER, IT IS OVER ;cause you Refuse to tolerate Physical Abuse.
2006-06-12 22:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by yvonnejust4today 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel!!! its your body and shouldnt be violated no matter who the person is. you two should discuss this so he will be more cautious of whats he's doing next time. discuss it, let it go it was just an accident. i hope.
2006-06-12 22:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit down with him and tell him what was going through your head. if he refuses to sit down and talk, hes not gonna want to do something about it. you gotta make a choice. dump him,or force him to listen. just say what you feel is right.
2006-06-12 22:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sandman23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋