I went out and fell in love with this one guy and he later broke up with me after i showed him the best of affection...he would always wait for me but when we broke up i wasn't expecting him but there he was but he tourtured me he only waits to hit me or make me feel bad i go to try to change him by being nice but it doesn't lok like he'll change so why does he wait for me to hurt me for??
2006-06-12 15:22:03 · 6 answers · asked by Getroman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's an abuser!! drop him like a hot coal!! good riddance!!
2006-06-12 15:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to stay away from this guy. Do whatever you need to do. If you come home to find him waiting for you, turn on your heel and get out of there as fast as you can. Don't listen to a word he says. Don't let him make you feel bad, girl. You are a good person, beautiful just the way you are, and you deserve so much better than he could ever give you. You deserve to be respected for the woman you are. Don't let this man push you around and bully you. If you have to, take out a restraining order on him, like I had to with my ex. I've been where you're at, honey, I know what it's like. Stay away from this man. If you need to, see if you can stay with a friend or something for a while, until things start to calm down. I had to do that too. I'm praying for you. I hope this helps.
2006-06-12 22:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by writer_girl20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever go back, he showed his true colors and will never change. Guys can for short term, but abuse must have run somewhere in the family. Been there, seen it first hand. Talked to many others with the same deal. Take care of you!
2006-06-12 22:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by wolf1230pack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why that is but i do know that some people shouldnt be in relationships. Like my x... i was nice to her all the time, even when she treated me like **** and emotionally abused me. It was so hard to get over her because we were together for a year and I loved her so much.
2006-06-12 22:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lookinstr8over 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he knows you like him so much that you will let him get away with it. Please don't let anyone treat you that way. People like that don't care about themselves or anyone else. Most times they are a lost cause. You are much better off by staying as far away from him as you can. The space will give you time to get over him and realize you deserve much better.
2006-06-12 22:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by gwen.wilcox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldnt you be reporting him to the police??? This guy is obviously up to no good.
2006-06-12 22:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by viola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋