Sex before marriage?

Question

Some say yes, some say no. Your opinion....

Answer 1

I say sex before breakfast

Answer 2

Sex is such an important part of the dance of a relationship, such an individually crafted part, how can you trust that you will fit with each others' wants and needs in that area by just blindly getting married?

You are going to commit to "well, whatever HE wants in bed, I will do to make him happy?" when you don't know that what he really wants is _____ (fill in the blank)? And maybe you find the whole idea of _______ repulsive? Or maybe...well, you get the idea.

Or maybe you don't. What "floats someone's boat" in bed can be any number of things. The menu is pretty wide-ranging. Maybe you are up for what your partner is up for, maybe you are not. This is a place to check for compatability BEFORE you say "forever more."

I mean, your prospective partner may not even want to have sex AFTER marriage. Some folks out there are walking wounded, rape and molestation survivors, who have not yet healed. You willing to do without?

Yes, use protection against unwanted pregnancy and disease. Women should know there is now a vaccine against cervical cancer caused by human papilloma virus (a sexually transmitted disease). But marriage blindly without knowing whether or not you are sexually compatable? Best of luck.

Answer 3

I say no because God made a plan for us and sex before marriage is a sin. If you wait until after marriage, God says it will be the best and most spiritual you will ever have. So I say wait and the time will come.

Answer 4

I think sex when married although i had sex and never was married. But i think that would be so special to have waited til marriage and that being ur first and only one if the marriage works out

Answer 5

Yes, sex in marriage is important part of the relationship. If you don't know what you are getting, how do you know if you are going to like forever?

Answer 6

I think it's ok if you are safe about it and have been in a relationship for a while. Wait a couple months or so at the earliest. I am from Utah too!!! and fornication is against the law!!! It's so funny though I have never met anyone in jail for it.

Answer 7

I think, on one hand, if you love the person and are ready, you could have sex before marraige... on the other hand, being a virgin until your wedding night seems like a very pure way to go. I think it all depends on the person in question - their beliefs, ideas, thoughts, and maturity. I'm not quite sure how I feel about me, personally.

Answer 8

i say yes but don't go sleeping around with the entirity of L.A. but to wait until marrige to have sex is a personal opinion. mine is i'll probably do soemthing before but who knows? i don't see the fun in only having one person. what if they're no good? lol huh?

Answer 9

Depends if you want to wait and why. Im 21 and still a virgin I want to wait until marriage. Every guy that I have dated said they respect that. But if you feel your ready by all means go ahead.

Answer 10

Everyone is different. Me, personally I have before marriage. You just need to find someone that feels the same way you do....

Answer 11

You would test drive a car before you bought it. Sex changes everything so knowing how it changes your partner will give you more insight when making a life long decision. Good luck!