ok so i have been talkin 2 this boy and i mean i like him but also there's this 1 interested in me, today we kinda get close and when i told my bestfriend about it she was mad becuz she said that i am suppose 2 b wit the first one. did i do sumthin wrong? she thinks that i am a player and refuse 2 talk 2 me
2006-06-12 15:05:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget what your friend says, You are the one who is going to be dating the guy, not her. It doesn't matter who came first. but more who fits the position better...like a job position hehehe....who are you more compatible with and who can you get along better...who are you more interested in....whatever makes you happy is really what you should focus on instead of which guy's feelings youll end up hurting
2006-06-12 15:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. it is confusing to the g.f. I think it's going too far labeling you a player here too. I've liked 2 guys at once (sure!) I just wait it out for one of them to 'outinterest' (me) the other one!.. lol.. It'll happen. Sooner or later you'll pick one over the other. Why not? You gotta make an intelligent decision here WHO to be with.. It's not the g.f's life.. (better yet, tell her to go play with her own life.. leave yours alone.. ****, I'd get a different girlfriend, honey, hang onto the guys!) lol. Hey, she might be after one of the men (think that one over..) is she trying to sabotage ya? I think if UR not sleepin' w/both of them (and hell why not do that, at the risk of sounding hoochie I am still thinkin') what's wrong w/talking to 2 fellahs at once? HEll, it happens all the time, I'd tell her!.. lol later m elancholia
2006-06-12 22:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two guys? Try juggling 4 of them around. I didn't choose any of them. Your friend sounds like no friend at all and she should mind her own business. Just leave both of them alone for awhile and the answer will come.
2006-06-12 22:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be frank, you should go with the one you think you will miss the least. (Talking from experience) He is the one you love the most, and when you are not with him, it kills. Trust me on this one. And good luck to you!!
2006-06-12 22:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzie03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just see which one knows like tell them my middle name is say nickey tell both of them then like a week later ask them whats my middle name see which one gets it right.
2006-06-12 22:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Just do what your heart tells you.
2006-06-12 22:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by Read n' Write 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to m ake a choice, and stick with it. it is not being fair to them or yourself.
2006-06-12 22:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by captures_sunsets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just follow ur heart
2006-06-12 22:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by Sniper1409 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋