the relationship was started by her but it sorta lost its flava. And you have other gurls to talk to wat do you do. you don't want to hurt her.
2006-06-12 15:00:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you feel no sparks between eachother whats the point on going out with her? she may be upset for the first few days and she may tell her friends...but the key is dont have one of your friends break u 2 up 4 you do it yourself...unless u cant handle that kinda thing. But i suggest u tell her u just wanna be friends.......and trust me every girl gets over a breakup and u may hurt her but you gotta do wut u gotta do......take it from a girl
2006-06-12 15:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. It hurts less to rip a bandaid off fast than it does to pull it off slow. You will both hurt after the breakup but it is a part of life. I think she already is getting signals from you that it is over and I don't think she will be surprised when you end it. never stay in a relationship you don't want to be in. It will hurt you and them very much.
2006-06-12 22:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by harryt62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't want to be with her anymore and that's how u truly feel then just tell her in a that she can possible understand. yes she will be hurt but she will get over it,get over u, and move on. Do not string her along having her think that everything is all good and it isn't. just tell her how u really feel she will eventually be alright
2006-06-12 22:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what you do, you're going to hurt her feelings. Think about how you'd want to be broken up with and do it that way. Remember to be kind and positive- maybe you'll have a friendship to hang on to.
2006-06-12 22:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't wanna hurt her you need to let her go. She be madder at you for not letting her go in an attempt to spare her feelings than you just letting her go, crying it out, and moving on...trust me, just tell her you don't feel the same way about her anymore and gently let her go. Hopefully she'll understand, but if not, that's life...good luck
2006-06-12 22:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Cynicaldreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I THINK U SHOULD DO THE THINGS THAT SHE DOESN'T LIKE U TO DO BUT IF IT DOESNT WORK TRY TO TELL HER THAT U DON'T WANT TO BE WITH HER AND IT WOULD BE BETTER 4 U 2 AND 4 HER OWN GOOD
2006-06-12 22:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by babygurl21_8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask yourself, if she wanted out, would she be that considerate of your feelings? chances are she wouldn't. you would get the shove without a single flinch. don't stay with her out of pity. that's worse, you are not trying to save her feelings now, you are trying to save yours . you don't want to feel bad for giving her the boot. vast difference.
2006-06-12 22:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get her to hate you, That way she doesn't get hurt. Let her brake up with you. But don't cheat to piss her off, that will hurt her.Only you know what she doesn't like.
2006-06-12 22:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize to her and tell her what is wrong between you and her. tell her your reasonable reason for leaving her. anyhow she will get hurt but try to minimize the consequence. good luck :-)
2006-06-12 22:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by yiub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurt is part of life. it would be unfair to keep her thinking u like her
2006-06-12 22:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by chiagato 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋