I've always fantasized about me, my gf and another man. I've suggested it in passing a few times but she just kind of dismissed it. What do you girls think?
2006-06-12 13:45:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think shes scared of saying something and possibly hurting your feelings. I think she may not like the idea but doesnt want to say anything because she doesnt want you to get the idea that if shes not willing to fulfill your fantasy, then you will find someone else who will. I think you should talk to her and ask her what her feelings are about this fantasy. If shes not interested, I say you need to be able to accept and understand her decision or move on.
2006-06-12 13:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by niteangel2283 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If I were you I would first think about how much you care about your GF. If you are in love with her, how will you react if she finds the other guys sexual techniques and thrust better than yours? If you do not have very strong feelings and just want your fantasy I suggest you either find another girl and guy to have your fantasy with. Or have your fantasy with your GF but know that this has a high risk of destroying your relationship. Also if she has dismissed it before, then you should think she may not want to go that way. LUCK TO YOU!
2006-06-12 20:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she dismissed it, she obviously isn't in that sort of thing, you shouldn't push it. Don't try to talk her into it, you will end up losing her.
I personally think that it's gross, I wouldn't do it either, no matter if its 2 guys and 1 girl or 2 girls and 1 guy.
Sex is supposed to be an intimate thing between 2 people, not 3 or 4.
2006-06-12 20:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to wander why another man? I can see you trying to talk her into another chick but a dude, cmon. how can she say no? unless she fears she will be neglected in the experience. lol , or are you suggesting this knowing she will dismiss it and then you say how about you and another gurl and me? you sly devil. I 'm not being judgemental, hey if that floats your boat , go for it. fill er up. are you sure you aren't trying to relieve some guilt here? tell her you been doing another chick and she will be more than happy to oblige you.
2006-06-12 20:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a couple of things. first off, she might have dismissed it because she thought you were testing her, or she might just think you are joking.she might not be into that.tell her this,i was wondering if we could have a 3 some with another guy, if you dont like want that , cool, but im just talkin to you, be warned though, she might think the guy is secretly for you and that is another situation.
2006-06-12 20:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you dum only how thats going to happen is if you have a white girl friend and she is cool but shes black trust me thats not going to happen
2006-06-12 20:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by sexyshaquanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a real ugly girl that makes your gf look like a babe. Tell her you will save it for her. Make sure you are all pissed.
2006-06-12 20:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Iknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just wish you were my bf cuz i'd do it a.s.a.p. you help me talk my bf in to that i want it 2 b 2 girls and him. that's my biggest fantasy. but just talk to her about it. if she goes for it then cool, if not then just let it go,it's not worth risking the relationship especially if you love her.
2006-06-12 20:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by supergirl331117 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isnt into it then I would just accept that. You could ruin the relationship if you push it.
2006-06-12 20:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by Daycare Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is the only one that can agree, you need to ask her outright if she would and if she says no,, forget it.
2006-06-12 20:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋