I dont exist or matter to men because of my age. I feel that men around my age only want the 25 year olds and dont look at me like a women. Is this how it is?
2006-06-12 13:16:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We men are a strange bunch.... and seldom admit it. Alot of us look for someone who's fun to be around. I wasn't looking for a younger woman... just someone I could get along with well, communicate with and shared common ground. But she was so much fun to be around and actually acted more my age..... I just got lucky. There is some guy out there that is dying to ask you out... they just haven't worked up the courage yet.
2006-06-12 13:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by tcatmech2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it, stop it with that older stuff. I am 50 and while I do not look 19 I feel it. you will make yourself as old as you want to feel. Get out and stop with the old stuff. Ride a bike, get a pair of roller blades, fly a kite. The only reason that you are feeling like you do is because you want to. I have had two women and 26 years of marriage all ending in divorce and as a single man I think that some of the most attractive ladies I see are in their 30's and 40's. You will look and act just like you feel and you control that. Please do me a favor, don't look too old because one day we might run into each other and want to do something like have a pic-nic and swing at the park and you would not want to be too old would you? Life is too short, live while you have it and worry about those things later, much later. I will be looking for you. Wink!
2006-06-12 20:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unfortunate you feel this way, must have had some bad experiences? I'm 50 and would love to meet someone in there 40s or 50s or 60s. I think women at this age are great they have established them selves as "real women", and usually do not carry any baggage. If you need more incouragement let me know.
2006-06-12 20:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by ORALE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, older guys like younger women. But a good looking 40+ girl can be hot too.
Youth is attractive but this is not exclusive, how you look and take care of your body etc is also a factor.
Send me a picture and i~ll rate you out of 10.
2006-06-12 20:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I am 50 and have no problem with the men I date
I look younger than my age, exercise every day, dress great, and am interested in alot of guy hobbies
You need to keep looking.. they are out there
2006-06-12 20:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a figment of your emagination or lack of self esteem. You are still young. Most men want women close to their age. Those with hopes of landing a much younger lass are fantasizing.
2006-06-12 20:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sad to me when I see people who have lost the spark to take initiative. Seek counseling. Read self help books. Get up, get out and get going. Men are not attracted to pitty.
2006-06-12 22:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am 45 and you just have to let a man know that you exist
2006-06-12 20:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind. You a girl, or you a guy.
2006-06-12 20:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by Pancakes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋