If he says he does and always wants to be with me, does that mean that his really in love with me? I think that I may love him but it might be that i just admire him for telling me how he feels. What do you guys think?
2006-06-12 12:17:33 · 17 answers · asked by guitarchica328 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When a man tells you he loves you,he does. Most men aren't crazy and don't say things that they don't mean. We don't have time for games and get tired of them, frankly. Stop second guessing him and believe it. BUT... If you don't love him back, certainly don't say it unless you mean it. Then you are leading him on, and playing the head game. Love isn't something to mess with people with. People die over it, just the same as they die over money and oil. Just be truthful.
2006-06-12 12:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jason W 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the big problem isn't whether HE loves YOU, but whether YOU love HIM. I'd figure that one out before I moved on to sweating over what he's really feeling.
Love is a tricky wench. Sometimes, it's hard to tell if you are in love, in lust, in admiration or just plain lonely. Try the following litmus test:
Do his actions match his words? Does he treat you respectfully? Is he interested in hearing your concerns, your passions, your opinions and your goals? Is he condescending? Have you met his friends, his family or any of his ex's? What do those who know him best think/feel about him? Are you happier with him in your life? Do you feel that you two, as a couple, are more than just the sum of your two parts?
Figure out the answers to those questions and THEN decide if you are in love with him. By that time, you will already know whether he is in love with you.
2006-06-12 19:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by hp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily cause actions speak louder than words. if he puts ur feelings before himselfs and if he's just wants to be around u even if ur not doing anything then he probably does love u i mean theirs a lot more things and signs that say that he loves u so don't always go by words. and if ur not sure if u love him pls make sure u do before u do something u might regret later on in life. sometimes you've been around the person for so long that u get use to the fact that he's always there and it turns out it's not love.
2006-06-12 19:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by nena_consentida79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that words are not enough.... I think you need more than that to know when somebody loves you. Like for example, my husband when we were dating...he helped me go through a really bad depression...he encouraged me to not give up and try to get out of it. He would go out anywhere to have fun..because he would know that I was feeling bad..he waited for me 1 year and 3 mos. in the beginning when he first wanted to go out with me. He would buy me a happy birthday cake on my birthday and give me roses which I love. He stood by my side and never left me ..when my family didn't wanted us to be together.. I think it's the actions that count and then words. You feel it when you know when someone loves you.... I'm not sure if this guy does..
2006-06-12 19:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Maria A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes a guy who wants to always bea round you could be someone who is giving you signs that he is very controlling person he may very well love you i guess time will tell usually it happens at firast sight or in an instant it can happen gradually but that is never treu love,give him space and your self space and see how things work out
2006-06-12 19:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is really hard to tell by just what you are saying. Ask a close friend who sees you and him together.
2006-06-12 19:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by pinkmonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys arent very truthfull with this honestly. its hard to love someone and most likely hes truthfull but there could be a chance hes using this to get closer to u sexually. everyone knows that but most people dont know how true it really is
2006-06-12 19:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by confused maybe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you feel about him ten minutes before he told you he loved you? You will know when you truly love someone - you just won't have to ask.
2006-06-12 19:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by stuckingrasstucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE SAYS HE LOVES YOU AND ALL WANT OT BE WITH YOU I WOULD SAY HE DOES CAUSE GUYS DOWN SAY THE L WORD TO OFTEN
2006-06-12 19:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by big momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words, if his actions don't back up his words then he is just there for convenience.
2006-06-12 19:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by Jae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋