My fiance and I were together for about 4 years. Lately we've had some stress about moving into a new apartment and we recently got a new truck for him. Anyways, he was acting a little distant the past 2 weeks or so and I would ask whats wrong- hed say nothing. Well, this past Saturday we were cuddling watching a movie with our Tinkerbelle and it was the sweetest moment. Pure relaxation. Then the Sunday after that, he's telling me i give him too much attitude and I need to pack my things and leave. I've lived at his house for 1 year and he was so cold and cruel to me. What's worse is that there was no real reason for why he called things off. He just kept yelling and saying things were my fault. Im a tiny thing and I dont give much attitude to anyone for no reason. Friends and family say he was scared to move out of his parents house and play the role of grown up. Whats even worse is that he wont talk to me or return my calls, what do i do? I feel like something is pushing him away.
2006-06-12 11:57:03 · 4 answers · asked by monetmanagement 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'm sorry to hear what happening to you, but I'm afraid that he just wasn't ready for something serious. Sometimes people won't admit to things and blame other for it..and in this case I think that's what happened. I think you should just leave him alone, and let him think. I know it's hard for you but the best thing to do. Take time for yourself..and think that if you were married already to him and things started to be this way..think how you would be. I think this is a sign that it wasn't met to be..or may he's just not ready. Give him time, and then try to speak to him and see what wrong with him...if he still advoids you..then just let him go. It better for things to happend this was even if they hurt..then you getting married with him and they have no turning back.....good luck.
2006-06-12 12:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by Maria A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your guy is commitment phobic.....why don't you give him some time........like a couple of weeks and then try to call him again or send him an email telling him how you feel, and that you just don't understand what went wrong..
I think he'll come around, just give it time.....
2006-06-12 13:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by xqueenyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit while your ahead. This guy is a loser your lucky that he walked first, saved you a lot of trouble. Keep walking and don't look back.
2006-06-17 21:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's seeing somone else
2006-06-14 15:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋