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i am skinny...and i hate it, guys tell me thta they would like me if i was bigger...but thats not fair!!!

2006-06-12 11:43:59 · 26 answers · asked by abby Kadabby fe fi fo fabby :) 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

26 answers

Healthy no matter the size.

2006-06-12 11:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 7 · 2 0

Advertisements, movie starlets, Playboy/Penthouse models, all shd answer this for you... we like skinny women. But lately there's a larger size craze I'm told. And I know this, someone said that Rembrandts women, which if you get to the Met you can see, are all very sexy. You'd probably say they were fat, big. There's a saying that men REALLY prefer bigger girls, softer girls, more womanly, more to love. True? Who knows? It depends is always the answer. Look at Rembrandt's paintings of women.

Mostly, more than anything else, we like variety. Now, assuming you don't cheat on eachother, the only way to get his ever-newness is to mix it up. Variety keeps things sexy. Remember, wigs, clothing, fetishes, all kinds of stuff. As I keep writing to so many sad persons. Have fun with it all. Life's too serious to take too seriously.

The answer is men like both. It is not either/or. Did you walk to school, or bring your lunch--do men prefer skinny girls, or bigger girls? Equivalent silliness, see?

If you've enough money, silicone baby!!! A good doc and ah, that can be beautifully done. Making you nearly irresistable--if done right, esp. on a skinny girl, small chested girl to start out with, but either way! Silicone is safe they say. And trust me on this one.

dg

2006-06-12 11:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by DANIEL G 2 · 0 0

if your not fun to be around it doesn't matter if you are skinny or fat. Your personality is what really counts even thou you might not be live it right now. look at all the relationships that last... some fat some skinny some ugly some pretty one thing that all those couples have in common is that they get along with each other & like each others company. The girl that talks to the guys... usually gets the guys be it fat or skinny... just start talking & you will meet someone if not already

2006-06-12 11:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by Starscream 4 · 0 0

First of all, it's not about fat or thin, it's about personal taste. I just this Saturday watched two cartoons that emphasized this. In Family Guy Peter wouldn't have sex with Lois after his vasectamy, so she got fat. He found it to be the sexiest thing. On a preview of on of MTV2's new shows, a limosine with a bunch of those thin/anorexic stars talked about not eating.

But, it is all a personal choice. And personally I believe that you must be healthy physically and emotionally. That means you can be fat or thin and still look good, because the way you feel and act comes though.

Of course, if you are too thin, I'd worry about breaking you or getting jabbed with a boney elbow or knee. If you are to fat, there the crushing and suffocating. But, all in all, those things can be worked around.

2006-06-12 11:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by Benjamin A 3 · 0 0

You've been living under the complete lie that guys like skin and bone hanging off their arm. No way, most guys like a big butt and something to hold on to. I'd be worried that you'd snap in two or fly out of a window while we were in full swing.

Get some meat on ya bones and then we'll talk...

2006-06-12 11:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

guys like different things, i tried to play that game of changing myself to please other people, and let me tell you it didn't work!

So if you like being skinny then be skinny. Skinny is sexy, personally I would prefer my skinny body over one with chunks and rolls and curves. It's all about how comfortable you feel in your own skin. The skinny girl and the chubby girl can be equally as attractive if they both know how to pull of their own bodies. If you feel attractive, you will give off that confident vibe and people will notice!

Theres no use in trying to change yourself to please other people because it never works out. Just live for yourself and be happy and you will get plenty of attention. ;)

2006-06-12 11:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think it depends on the person whatever weight she looks better in cause some girls look good skinny and so look good with meat personally i lost alot of weight in the past and everyone kept saying i look sick so it all depends on the persons body type.

2006-06-12 11:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by Lexy320 2 · 0 0

Well I am A girl myself and to let you know (older guys like the thick girls and the younger guys like skinny chicks) If you are wondering how i know its because i have had exprience myself.

2006-06-12 11:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by MeccaMedina 1 · 0 0

Skinny girls with big body parts.

2006-06-12 11:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Either or. I like beautiful , curvaceous women with nice personalities with a good demeanor, there size doesn't really matter.Just learn to be happy with yourself, if the men/guys you date all say that then it is more about the way they want you not the way you are. Try it out if you like being "healthier" then stay with it.

GOOD LUCK !

2006-06-12 11:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by brooklynbornson 4 · 0 0

PHAT up top and bottom but skinny in the middle. That's what you need to work on. To get a PHAT bottom, do squats and stair climbing. To get a PHAT top, uhhmmm fork out some dough

2006-06-12 11:46:20 · answer #11 · answered by almondjoy_1000 3 · 0 0

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