2006-06-12 11:26:46 · 24 answers · asked by glossypacemaker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
F U C K you sucka.... I am moving on!!!!!
2006-06-12 11:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. I had an ex that lied to me through out our relationship and would swear to me that he never cheated on me and I seem to find more and more people that he has all the time. He still wants to get back together with me but save the heart ache, not going to happen.
2006-06-12 11:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by pinkmonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're married and/or promised each otherfidelity and exclusivity:
I would smile and enjoy her misery as I told her that, because I could never really trust her 100% ever again, there was simply no way I'd have her back, no, no, no, not now, not ever.
If you didn't promise each other that you wouldn't f.u.c.k. other people:
Maybe, depending on the circumstances; but 99% "no".
It depends on whether she breached a promise when she cheated on you. F.u.c.k.i.n.g someone else isn't the "sin", the "sin" is doing it if you've promised not to.
If you have her back, make that promise to each other and, if she ever does it again - instant dismissal!
2006-06-12 13:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by Nefeco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and never go back! what ever made them do it will possibly still be there and they are kidding themselves if they think they can ignore their feelings. You know when you have made a mistake quicker than less than a year, I know you have history but what advice would you give a friend if they were in your position? Be honest to yourself.
2006-06-12 12:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by leepato1970 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see ya, have a good life, it takes about a year to get someone you really care about behind you. you are just now feeling good about yourself, the hurt and shame are gone, now lil miss cheat wants to do a rerun of last year. hell no, you done found out what she is capable of. and from experience I will tell ya, she will do it again. if you take her back, she has gotten away with it once, now if you just want to bang her, I say no, sex has a way of pulling you back in the mess. walk away dude , walk away.
2006-06-12 11:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Search your heart, If you can forgive, and you know they are genuine then give it a try. They will be cautious and it will take time to rebuild trust. You should be aware of why they went in the first place and seek to rectify that.
2006-06-12 11:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by beefypete_quizmaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask alot of questions....do you still love her? can you forgive her? do you want her back in your life? is she truly sorry? or does she just need a place to recoup and move on again? if this happens will you be devastated? In my opinion, one mistake is forgivable,anything more is not! If you answered yes to 4 of these questions give it another chance. Good Luck
2006-06-12 13:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by dawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i'm still in love with her i'd say: let's give love another chance.
if i'm still hurt i'd say: i'm sorry.
if she's turned into a sexy thing i'd say: you betcha!
if she's gained weight i'd say: you look ... different.
if she's asked that while pointing a gun at my face i'd say: you're the love of my life.
if i had a wife i'd say: you're too late.
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seriously, you need to think about what she's done to you, and if she actually mean what she's saying, and how sorry she is and how hard is she struggling to convince you to take her back. of course you need to consider a few things about yourself too. how much you've been hurt. was it hard to get back on your feet. come on, man, the answer is really inside you. if you ask people i'd say most of them would judge her for her first mistake. just go slow.
2006-06-12 11:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by phaditama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it ! Thts one mistake thts off limits! The x has a defnt.problem with there brain.Can you imagine dateing someone tht screwed up ?U could never marry and trust her ! Hello ! think about it if you had a friend with someone like tht!
2006-06-12 11:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if she's really, really, REALLY, tryin hard as hell to get back wit you, den give her a chance.
Peyce ~n~ God bless your soul and hope you find a new, nice, loyal, pretty fine and thick dependin on how you like it.
2006-06-12 11:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have feelings then talk to her listen to what she has to say! If you dont you will always think "what if" and you will never be able to close that chapter in life!
2006-06-12 11:31:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋