my younger sister is 13 and she meeting this older guy secretly. what should i do?

Question

this guy is 26. i've met him before and his really nice and very respectful. but i am scared.

Answer 1

That's just sick. No matter how respectful and nice this guy may seem he's really a total creep. I'm 24 and there's no way in hell I would hang out with a 13 year old unless I was related to them. It's obvious he's going to mess up your sister so badly. Tell your parents about what this guy is doing. Your sister may hate you for telling on her, but when she's older and more mature she'll be very thankful. This guy can screw her over for the rest of her life, or cause her years of therapy.

Answer 2

If there is nothing wrong going on, then why is this a secret? Why isn't he picking her up at your home and meeting your parents?

If he genuinely cares about your sister for herself, he will be willing to wait until she is older to be alone with her. Does your sister even know where this man lives? Where he works? Whether he is married? Has any children?

Urge your sister to think about these things. Try to convince her to require this man to meet your parents and see her openly, instead of treating her like some shameful secret.

Also make sure your sister knows how to avoid pregnancy and infections. Here is some information on condoms, birth control, infection, safer sex, abstinence and other alternatives to sex, how to talk to your partner about sexual issues ... even a video on how to CORRECTLY apply a condom.
http://www.teenwire.com/
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/

As a nurse, I have counseled many pregnant young teens. The daddy is rarely a young teen himself; it is usually some fellow in his 20s or even 30s.

Answer 3

Honey...you need to tell your parents today. This is nothing to play around with. Your sister is playing with fire and lacks the age and mental maturity to know better.

You have to stand up for her, take action and be a true "big sister"....it is the right thing to do. You sister could wind up pregnant or worse, this guy only wants one thing from here, he is sick and mentally disturbed.

Sweetheart...the guy may seem nice but some of the worst predators present themselves well. Don't play around... go downstairs and tell your parents, they will thank you.

You sister will more than likely hate you for this now...but who the hell cares...you have to do what is right. I am sorry to say this, but she is too young and lacks sound judgment in the dating department. Consider this...a couple of years ago she was still playing with Barbies....something to think about.

My daughter is nine...Any predator who even glanced sideways at her would find his *** slammed into a cell.

Set the example, be strong and wise.

Good Luck, you can do this.

Answer 4

You should tell your parents or just go ahead and call the cops because a 26 year old man has no business meeting with a 13 year old. You should do something fast before something bad happens.

Answer 5

I think you should tell your parents. However nice this guy may be, your sister does not need to be meeting him. She is much too young to be meeting up with someone that much older than her. If you can't tell your parents, then you should definitely talk her out of it. It could turn out to be a terrible mistake. And, if she won't listen, advise this man that it is illegal to do anything with someone under the age of 18.

Answer 6

1.I know you dont wont to betray your sisters trust, so try talking to her and expressing your concerns about this older man.
2.Explain to your sister that if she does not reconsider you will be forced to tell your parents
3.Tell your parents-You may be doing your sister one of the biggest favors of her life-don't feel bad
(no matter how polite this man is,he is far too old for your sister-he is no gentleman if he is involving himself with a little girl,he may be using your sister or manipulating her in ways he cant an older woman)

Answer 7

First of all I would report his sick *** to the police! Kick my lil sister *** then talk to her about the man that is not the one for her no matter how nice he is! She's 13yrs old what the hell would
a 26 yr old man have in common with her! That is so sick! And for you to even say he is nice who cares! You should be protecting your lil sister.

Answer 8

Wow stop it as soon as possible a guy that age doesn't just want a kiss on his cheek. for the sake of your sister halt it. theirs guys her age i'm sure. She needs just to get out more i mean tell her a guy like thats going to get old before her way before her he's going to be 40 when she's 20 something.

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Answer 9

initially, confront your sister. tell her what you desperate. See her reasoning for it. talk to her approximately what could desire to take place as a result from her strikes. permit her comprehend you're disillusioned in her. If she is obviously sorry approximately it, tell her you will no longer tell her mum and dad until she does it back.. Which she greater now no longer. Lol If she did it as quickly as greater, i might tell your mom and pa.

Answer 10

Hey a guy could be nice or sweet still does'nt mean he can't rape your sister. TELL YOUR PARENTS RIGHT AWAY.