Can a man tell if a woman is faking orgasm? I need to know my new boyfriend better before I can feel relaxed enough to climax. In the meantime, I don’t want to feel inadequate, so I am faking it.
2006-06-12 11:11:20 · 10 answers · asked by gthtjtkt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One if you are not comfortable enough to orgasm with him then you shouldn't be having sex with him. And now to answer your question it depends of how good of a faker you are and if he is too caught up in what is going on with himself to notice.
2006-06-12 11:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by pinkmonkey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you aren't inadequate if you don't have an orgasm! i don't think guys can really tell, but man i would hate to have to fake that. don't tell him you faked it, but train him to hit you in the right spot quick, because you've already started things off with him on the wrong foot. what really should have happened is you being honest that you didn't have an orgasm, and then you two could experiment to find ways that might make it better for you-plus that's something that should make you two more comfortable with eachother right off the bat.
if you need to know him better before you can 'relax', maybe you shouldn't be screwing him yet. i think that's your main problem.
2006-06-12 18:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that many men can tell if you are faking it, remember that old movie, "when harry met sally" if you haven't seen it yet. rent it, great scene in the restaurant/
Hopefully as you get used to each other and you relax more, you won't have to fake it, anymore.
Try asking him to do things, that you think will help you orgasm for real.That could speed up things.
2006-06-12 18:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe... Never had a girl fake because i'm so good..lol I can tell though unless the girl is down right going crazy I wouldnt be able to. Maybe you should just tell him how you feel and that you need to be more relaxed.
2006-06-12 18:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lookinstr8over 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OH lord.. if you are new in a relationship, I would say, if you know how to have one, you know how to fake one and unfortunately, most men don't know the difference. Unless you have had a lot of experience together and they know the signs... Sorry men, but it's true. I don't think it's right to fake them - and if you don't feel comfortable enough, you shouldn't be in bed together. Sorry - just my opinion...
2006-06-12 18:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by KB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't fake it. Just tell him whats up and what you like.
In other news, if you don't "know your new boyfriend better" and you are letting him stuff you full of dick, then you're a whore. So he prolly is just using you as a dumpster to blow his load in and could not possibly care less if you climax.
2006-06-12 18:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some guys can tell.. so watch out. I faked it several times.
2006-06-12 18:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...they can't tell....These are the same men who walk around adjusting themselves in public...they are dumb as rock sometimes, plus most of them are too into themselves at the time to notice what your doing..hehehe...That was mean I know
2006-06-12 18:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men can depends on how well you can fake it.
2006-06-12 18:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men CANNOT tell. Just keep excersing your vaginal muscles and a good faker will never be spoted.
2006-06-12 18:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋