ok i have this guy friend that i really really really like, and when we hang out, it's amazing, he makes me laugh and i look into his eyes and it's just like---you know---and i know he at least likes me as a friend or else we wouldn't be hanging out and he wouldn't be telling me to call him. I'm friends with his best friend, too, and she told me that he was talking about me for like thirty minutes...But he never calls me unless I call him first. And I feel like I'm calling him too much, and maybe starting to get a little pushy and annoying---but he never says anything about it---but then you'd think he'd call me back....what do I do?
2006-06-12 11:03:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok guys never call back...its just not a guy thing! why dont you just take the bull by the horns and ask him out! but before you ask him MAKE SURE that you say that if he says no then you want to be just friends and thats OK with you!
2006-06-12 11:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by hmmmm..... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I agree with the first poster..that he might not be interested because he never calls you unless you call him first. BUT, his best friend told you he was talking about you for 30 minutes..wow..that is a long time.....Odds are that he is into you. Just that he might not want to make first move because you guys are good friends. I suggest you make the first move...just ask him to dinner or something..something..that is not a friends type event. Then, you will see for sure if he likes you or not.
2006-06-12 18:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mav17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Newsflash.
If a guy only calls you after you call him....
He's not into you.
Same as a girl. You are just getting a taste of what it feels like.
Sounds like your best friend is playing it up. No guy talks about a chick for 30 min.
2006-06-12 18:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are different than women in that we HATE to talk on the phone. Women love to talk non stop and guys like more peace and quiet, for the most part. If he's talking about you a lot in a positive way, that's a good sign. This means that you're on his mind a lot which is a key indicator that he likes you in a romantic way.
2006-06-12 18:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by TonyDrummond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just ask him? i mean, if you really like him then you should know what to expect from him. if he's interested in you then good for you. if he's interested in just being a friend and no more, well, at least now you know and don't have to wait long before he or you gets annoyed and the friendship goes sour.
try flirting lines like: "yknow, i enjoy spending times with you so much. i'm just wondering if you're having as much fun as i do."
anyways, good luck.
2006-06-12 18:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by phaditama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him how you feel..........its better knowin how he feels instead of livin a life of "what if" and wonderin what would have happened if you told him........if he spends time talkin about you then obviously you mean something to him.....and just cause he doesnt call you it doesnt mean anything guys are just like that.......but if you feel your being pushy just stop callin that much.....just tell him how you feel.....lifes all about risks!!!
2006-06-12 18:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oksy this is how it is...he likes you but, hes the one who is afraid...its not you...or it could be like this...your friend might be telling you lies just get info out you to go back and talk to him about it and laugh about it...it could be either..but you need to sit down and get the info yourself..
2006-06-12 18:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by jarshaylin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋