I am hurt by my man from Australia,I love him so much and we had our babies,but today he wanted to leave me,even he used the bad excuse.He really hurt me,when I begged him with the babies,he even said what ******* babies!!!how can he treat me like that.I keep writing emails to him and talking with him,he even warned me,if I go on,he will ask the policemen to arrest me....
I cannot believe a man who said so much sweet words to you,he can become so bad and terrible!!!
I hate the long distance,I wish I can fly to melbourne and meet him,talk with in person,but it is impossible...
I am so sad and angry,what should I do now?my heart is broken now!!!
2006-06-12 10:43:30 · 10 answers · asked by honeylinda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is not worth the problems ,You loved him and that will always be with you but you must go with your live your kids need you. The pain will go away in time than you can find someone who loves you for you and your kids to. He don't want nothing to do with the kids its his loss not yours.
2006-06-12 10:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by hotcandysmacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean you are pregnant with his baby? or you two already have babies? You need to be strong. Stop thinking of him for a while. If you are pregnant, you might want to know if you want to keep the baby or seek for an abortion (if your religion and country law allows). If you already have the baby, you might want to think how you will support him/her and yourself in a long run.
if a guy betray you, it is no use to beg him. You need to be strong and happy. Then he might regret that he did something terrible and start to miss the sweet time you spent together.
In general not all guys like to take responsibility. Women need to be smart to find the right one. If sad thing happened, do not make it worse. All women had break heart once, twice or many times in their life. But most of them live a happy life regardless what had happened. And you can be one of them.
Good luck.
2006-06-12 17:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by Summer Camp? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl dont even waste another minute on his stupid a s s. Hes not worth any of your time, he chose to abondon your family and you! Why would you want to take that kind of man back into your life?!
You say hes your man, but he doesnt even have to balls to accept his babies as his own! Hes no man!!
STOP running after him, your puatting yourself down, and making yourself look desperate. If hes gonna treat you like that and not give a flying f * k about you...than s c r e w him!
You deserve someone better that would never leave you and your children and will adore you. You need to pull yourself together and stay strong!
You dont need him!
2006-06-12 17:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by Happily Married 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have kids with him? he abandoned you, i'm so sorry. it's too bad you weren't married to him because i think you'd have more say in this situation (like support for the kids, etc).
pull yourself together, hold your head up and raise your babies. you don't want a man that can desert his children to be in you life anyway. what do you think would happen if you continually beg him? that once you do it long enough, he'll give in and things will be better? absolutely not. time to make some good choices now, if not for yourself then for your babies.
good luck and god bless
2006-06-12 17:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, and when you can, go to bed and get a good night's sleep. Things will look brighter in the morning after you have had a night of rest. Take care of your babies, and love them, whether he does or not. Better things are in store for you, in the near future. Good Luck!!
2006-06-12 17:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
^Do you want advise or do you want someone to hold your hand? If the former, here it is, blunt, brutal, honest and with no sugar coating. Are you strong enough to take it?
Get over it.
If you haven't done so, get a paternity order and a support order.
Stop begging, he might respond to it.
Stop contacting him before you end up in jail.
Stop having unprotected sex.
Get into counselling.
Grow up.
2006-06-12 17:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by Oscar Himpflewitz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not man enough to claim his babies? He probably broke your heart, but you need to get over it. Don't you keep chasing after him, that won't do you any good. Start a new life and take care of your babies.
2006-06-12 17:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women can be just as bad, If you remain with him you have no self respect. Find a Guy who wants you not a Guy who hates you.
2006-06-12 17:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance doesn't work. that is rule number one.
if he would say such cruel things and say them about the kids...he is a scumbag.
lastly...he met someone else. that is obvious.
2006-06-12 17:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by embigguns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like tough love i am sorry he did that!
2006-06-12 17:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by Hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋